2006-07-23 08:27:37 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion, virginity is definitely worth preserving until marriage. Anyone who tells you different is ignorant. There is absolutely no reason to give yourself away. Some people say, "You need to try other things that are out there." What for? What if you try it and you don't like it then what? It's not like it's a sweater that can be returned. Virginity is not something you can get back, sweetie. When it is given away, it should be special. I know many people say its just sex. But those are the people that have no self-respect. Fornication is the only sin you commit against your own body. Many people who didn't wait, (myself included) will honestly tell you, it is not something I couldn't have waited for.
My advice: Wait! When you do get married, it will be that much more special. It is a great feeling knowing that the person your married to saved themselves just for you. And I hope you don’t listen to any ignorant jerks that say, "How will you know you're compatible in that way if you don't test the waters?" Marriage is not and should not be based on sex. Things fade in a relationship, looks, money, health and sex is no exception. You will not always have the sex drive that you have now. Trust me when I say you need to ensure that there will still be something worth sticking around for after all else has faded away. Take your time and hold strong to your values. Don't buy into the crap that a lot of these guys throw your way nowadays. There is a special someone out there for you, who appreciates the sanctity of purity and marriage.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-23 08:41:42 · answer #1 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MAN YES! i don't think i can elborate on this more but i'll try....For most ppl it's easy to say yes if they aren't in a relationship. Well right now i have a bf and let me say that waiting is definitely a challenge but i know in the long run it will be worth it. Sex it the ultimate gift you can give your husband during marriage. Plus if you abstain, you won't have any sexual baggage such as STDs or children that you bring into your marriage.
2006-07-23 08:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think because if you wait til marriage and then have sex than just what if you don't like sex with that person he might not be good and than you cheat on him or something like that. To be honestly I don't really know what man that does wait until they get married, and if you tell them you want to wait until marriage 9 times out of 10 he's not going to wait for you he's going to cheat on you with someone else. A very few men might understand and do wait for you without cheating but not many.
2006-07-23 10:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, i mean why not if you do save it til your married youll be experiencing it for the first time protecting yuorself from getting a disease or getting pregnant and also your showing how much you love that person even though you didnt know them at the time you saved that one thing that you cant take back and can only give to one person so it shows you cared enough to wait
2006-07-23 08:35:00 · answer #4 · answered by Fumadero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think not.
Not telling you to go out and be a huge whore, but sex is a big part of marriage, and some people just aren't compatible in that way. I think you should be comfortable and excited with sex with your partner before you take the plunge.
Religion hates pre-marital sex because it leads to single parents and broken families, but as long as you are safe you shouldn't have any problems.
2006-07-23 08:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Steve S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES
the first one you go with always has special memories, I wish I had waited, when I was with first wife I thought how 1st (real hardcore) sex partner performed
my second Wife was virgin and we waited till we were married, she say's sex with me is awesome
I do my best, I did not know I was that good, but she has not known another man.
2006-07-23 08:33:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this depends on you... if you believe you should wait to have sex with someone then the person you choose to be your partner should understand and be happy to wait. however most people lose their virginities... you have to think what means more to you waiting or not waiting. the only main reason i could think of you waiting is because of the importance in religion... so you should consider whether or not to wait based on your beliefs. x
2006-07-23 08:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by Interesting 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is to many time people place sex as more important than any things else and they get married based on sex or stay datign based on sex an dotn take time to know who they are with keep the virginity an get to know who you are with an them know you if they truly want ot know you they will wait
2006-07-23 08:31:48 · answer #8 · answered by serenity0795 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
Talk to most people who lost their virginity before marriage and most will say they wish they hadn't lost it so young.
2006-07-23 08:29:59 · answer #9 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely...although the pressure is tough to beat.
2006-07-23 08:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋