i found a hair boble in my bfs car and its not mine. i confronted him but he says he dnt no were its fr

Answer 1

oh dear. do you suspect him for any other reason? if not then just forget it but if you do suspect him weigh up the evidence and confront him.

Answer 2

I think this is what you are saying: "I found a hair bobble(?) in my BF's car and it's not mine. I confronted him, but he says he doesn't know where it's from."

Has any other female EVER ridden in that car? Even before he bought it? It could have been there for years and just recently become dislodged. It could have been dropped by a friend that he recently gave a ride to - male OR female.

Seriously, there are bigger things to worry about and if a hair tie is setting you off, then there are bigger issues here. Work it out and try not to freak out so much about something so minor.

Answer 3

It's only a hair bobble. They fall out easily, I'm always finding them on my classroom floor. If I found one in my fiancé's car I wouldn't even bother asking about it, I would assume he'd given someone a lift - normal people do that from time to time. Why on earth would the first thought in your head be that he's cheating on you is a better question...

Whether he is or not should you really be getting married when you don't trust him? I would say not, personally. If you don't trust your fiancé with all your heart, because you know him as well as you know yourself and that you will never have to doubt him, then you have a major problem in your relationship that marriage will not solve for you. When your relationship really is right then trust is not an issue.

Answer 4

Okay we can all get suspicious soooo quickly. Is it his car or a company car? Does anybody else drive it?? Does he ever give work colleagues a lift during the day to meetings etc? have you and he been out with any of your (female) friends. Answer no to all the above then start to wonder. Let TRUST play some part in your relationship as once its gone its gone!!

Answer 5

maybe he doesnt

could be his sisters/cousins/mums

could be a mates, could be that someone accidently got it attached to em and dropped it in there

not the worst thing in the world is it..if you found a thong id understand but a hair bobble

Answer 6

If you are looking for trouble you will find it.

Your question says two things. You are jealous and you don't trust him. Do him a favour and yourself and leave.

You do not have the basis for a successful relationship!

Answer 7

It's probably one of mine - I lose them all over the place!

Generally people who lie will tell you a huge story with details and all sorts. A straight 'dunno' means he doesn't know - would you notice if a female freind left a hair accessory in your car?

Poor guy - gives a friend a lift and look where its got him.

Answer 8

what the heck is a hair boble? maybe its his moms or grandmas or something..look into his eyes ... the eyes tell all... lol

Answer 9

Are you sure its not a kids that may have been in the car eith him. I would be more concerned if you saw footprints on the window

Answer 10

Does he have any sister that he perhaps had to give a ride to somewhere? Give him the benefit of the doubt, until he gives you a reason to believe otherwise.

Answer 11

You know what he's doing in your heart. Talk to him honestly. Put everything on hold.

If he's a cheater, get out.

Ask him where it came from. Obviously it was in his car. Did he lend it to someone? What?

**IMPORTANT** Communicate maturely. Don't yell, scream or accuse. Use "I" messages.