In love. I'm a girl who's 15 and he's a guy who's 28. He has been showing a little interest. He acts like 17 year old, he's like hanging out with people in my age and is very childish and he looks and dresses like a teen. but is age really a difference?
2006-07-23 08:00:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you just said that - i think your lying
2006-07-23 08:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by hahahhahaaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes At Your age there is a world of difference, At 28 he has to have had enough time to learn that he is an adult and he needs to act like it. I"m sure if your parents know, they are afraid to tell you no, because you are at the age to react with the opposite of what they want your life to be and go with this person. I think he is playing at being a teenager so he can take away from you what you can only give once in your life. In other words he is playing you. If he isn't playing at being a teenager then your future is not going anywhere,because he will never be responsible enough to provide you with any future. There is the probability that he is a child molester too and is only interested in hurting you. Ask your parents about the situation see if they think as i do this guy should be facing jail if he touches you in any way.
2006-07-23 08:35:07 · answer #2 · answered by eudaemon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this case age is an issue. It's more than the fact it's illegal.
If he is 28 and is so imature that he acts like he's 17. Then taht is a problem. You want a man who will handle his business. Meaning he can support himself with a great job, house, car and family. You want a MAN. He does'nt seem to be one. If he's interested in a young 15 year old girl then he must not be gaining much interest in his own age catagory. This should be a red flag to you. I was 15 once too, and there's nothing wrong with being young. Trust me, you don't want this guy
2006-07-23 08:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Kristen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if this guy is twenty eight years old, and a fifteen year old girl thinks that he is immature, then yeah, there is both a problem with the relationship, and this guy's psychological. just out of sheer curiousity, did you meet this man over the internet? and the fact that he is thirteen years older than the girl that he is dating, and this girl is not even old enough to buy a pack of cigarrettes presents a problem in itself. not to mention the jail time that any judge would hand out when he finds out that Chester is dicking down a high school sophomore. so in answer to the question are there still problems with this relationship. Moral problems, legal problems, and what seems to be some kind of woody allen complex (assuming that woody allen is just some average prick that hangs around minors on a regular, and what seems to be, frendily basis. can you say pedophile? and does he by any chance drive a big van with alot of candy laying around? and he has just a moustache doesn't he?
2006-07-23 08:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's 28 and hanging out with 17 year olds. Avoid this man like the plague. You ever wonder why he can't get girls his own age (or at least somewhere around it?) He's builds up a relationship with the 17 year old girls. Then they turn 18 (aka legal) and now he can take them out. More than likely he wants sex with young tight girls that instead could be with a real man in a real relationship (with guys that are the same age as them).
2006-07-23 08:07:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's face it; love knows no age. However, before you embark on this long road, make sure you know this person very well. Make sure its real love and not just lust. This whole situation can be extremely dangerous and painful for both of you if either of you are not as serious about it as the other. Both of you have different lives and different responsibilities which all must be taken into account. Also, be prepared that one day your paths in life might not follow so closely together and that the relationship may need to be put on hold or ended as the case may be. All in all just be careful for both your sakes.
2006-07-23 08:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Master Kain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were 18 it would not be a problem because that's legal. But because you are 15, it's not right. He could go to jail for years if he is with you. He may act younger, but he's still 28 and that's illegal.
2006-07-23 08:04:08 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy Lady E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh at 28 and hanging around with 15 year olds. Yes a problem, at 28 my man was a professional and owning his own home! Move on... grow up. Or should I say he needs to grow up.
2006-07-23 08:03:21 · answer #8 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is a number. I read part of a book from Elizabeth or Elisabeth Claire Prophet (not sure tha spelling) about soulmates and even though I don't believe everything in there, it even states how age is just a number. Jus don't let the police see you wit his guy, and don't get pregnant till you're 18 and you'll be fine. Always have protection with you (friends who can take him)
2006-07-23 08:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what you're saying is that when you're mature and responsible he'll still be immature and act like a kid. Run the other way.....please. Find someone your own age who will become a productive, caring partner when you are old enough. For now, work on yourself and don't worry about a relationship.
2006-07-23 08:04:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can strongly relate this was me once when i was 15 except the person i was dating was 23 yrs. old he wasn't hanging around with my age group cause he was working though in your case i would leave him alone cause if you don't he will hurt your feelings and break your heart if you really care about him cause he will find some else that is your age if he haven't already and take advantage of that person so just end the relationship before it's to late may god bless you
2006-07-23 08:20:33 · answer #11 · answered by missy979bryantx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋