Me and my boyfriend were not together that long 3 weeks to be exact, but I fell fast and already had been saying I love you to him and so had he, he claimed all the **** that guys normally claim... hell never hurt me or anything like that. Well last night out of nowhere when i got off of work I had gotten a text from this chick saying that she was now going out with him and he wants her to tell me its over. I have not talked to him. I do not know if it is even worth my time to call him. What should I do I fell too fast for this guy?
2006-07-23 07:58:17 · 12 answers · asked by middletownhigh2007 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not worth your time sorry it happened
2006-07-23 08:03:48 · answer #1 · answered by NEOTEH 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You fell in love too fast with this guy. We are all human and we all make mistakes as you are not the first or the last to be in that predicament.
What you can do is to use this experience as a guide so as not to give your heart and love so fast to any guy. Next time you meet some one take your time and find out all you can about him. Keep your feelings safe and always keep looking for Red Flags.
Remember the relationship game is like playing chess so you be careful and use this ineptitude as a guide and a reminder how easily our hearts can be hurt.
This guy never really liked you as he treated you badly by using another woman to say it is over between you two. This other woman should not think she is safe with him as he may as well do her the same thing.
I assume you two must have been intimate so he have moved on and you are feeling bad etc.
Why would you call this guy base on the way he treated you. He have raised enough Red Flags to light up the sky like the 4th of July with you. Are you crazy to call him and make him feel important ?
You move on with your life and always be prudent as the saying goes " History is the Preceptor of Prudence "
2006-07-23 09:06:10 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three weeks is not enough time to fall in love. Just talk to him. Things may be moving too fast for him.
2006-07-23 08:01:12 · answer #3 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to move on. If you fell for him that quick, it shouldnt be that hard for you to get over him. Dont worry yourself about him though, it will only make things worse for you, not him. Be strong and good luck.
2006-07-23 08:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or this chick is lieing and figures if you believe it she can then be there to scoop him up from dispare after you break up and it makes her look great. I would talk to him first before doing anything else.
2006-07-23 08:03:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definitely is not worth your time and energy - so i would put the phone down and get busy with something else.
2006-07-23 08:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds a only a little fickle. Maybe she has done you a favor. Move on. Good Luck.
2006-07-23 08:01:55 · answer #7 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think he needs to tell you its over and if that means you need to call then call. But you do deserve to know its over.
2006-07-23 08:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by looking for answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call. let him come back around. End it if it is true. ask you need to know. your young and can offer so much to some one that will truly love you.
2006-07-23 08:01:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first call him and ask himif it is true and if he says yes say **** you then and hang up
2006-07-23 08:03:09 · answer #10 · answered by diamond s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋