i need help with my little sister?

Question

my little sister goes out of her way to hurt me and my family and im not joking we tryed everything from being nice to brutal punishment and even treating her like everyone else no matter what we do she is always being alittlebitch i need help in knowing what to do

Answer 1

Smack the b*tch up.

Or not.

Answer 2

the more you let he see how much it's bugging you the more it eggs her on. It's her way of getting attention. Sounds like she is jealous of the attention you get. I think your parents should get her some professional help. I think they need to get out of denial about how uncontrollable she really is. In the mean time you need to tell her that you are not even gonna acknowledge her existence and stick to it. Don't give her attention for negative behavior. If she can't be nice then she doesn't exist to you. Maybe you should consult with a counselor at school about it.
She needs to know that there are real consequences that can happen for her behavior and everyone in the family has to stick to it together... maybe a kind of family intervention with an objective third party to facilitate.

Answer 3

Why haven't you looked at the option of getting her and the family into counseling to find out what the problem stems from and try to get her straightened out? There are free counseling programs, from her school to the Boys and Girl's Club and YMCA. Your family needs a professional involved, especially since you mentioned you have resorted to "brutal punishment."

If one of my neighbors had said that to me, I would be calling the police and Child Protective Services on them! NO child deserves to be at the brunt end of brutality to ANY extent for ANY REASON!!!

Answer 4

ignore her. tht's the only way she'l respond. coz she obviously loves attention. if she does anything bad....ignore it completely...act as if u didn't even hear bout it, talk to her normally...if she says something like aren't u mad at me or aren't u gonna yell at me...jus say u don't know wht she's talking bout or tht u don't care...try keeping an emotionless face. she may do wilder stuff after tht...but she'l see it's not working.
but at the same time if she does something good even pick up a small piece of paper, try giving her a smile and say thank you. this can be hard but u seem willing to try.

also try talking to some of her school frnds, without her knowing bout it ofcorz, n find out if she's having probs at school, talk to her teachers. n is everything alrite at home? do ur parents fight often. if they do....tell them to do it in the privacy of their room without being overheard.

if she wants to hang out with u sometimes....let her. don't tell her to buzz off....it may annoy ur frnds but u can allow it once in a while (but don't let her get used to it....she'l get on ur nerves). if u don't want her along tell it to her nicely....don't tell her to piss off.

hope this helps. eventually try professional counseling too, might help.

Answer 5

In order to respond in a meaningful way, I think we'd need more information about the ways and situations in which your little sister is being difficult. Can you give some examples?

Answer 6

Start to ignore her, when she starts acting the way she does, maybe she's doing it for the attention. Don't give into her attitude, because it will only get worse. Tell her the needs to grow up, because her acting like she's mean is doing her no good.

Answer 7

She needs some tough love, send her butt to "Boot Camp", I know you've seen that on the Maury Povich show.

Answer 8

Have a yard sell. When she is away some where. Sell all her crap and tell her to mow some yards to earn money. So she can buy crap.

Answer 9

Well Gosh! If your mom needs to start hittin her! I mean, no not abuse, but just to get her straightened up!

Answer 10

parents need to sit both of you down
and ask why is this the way it is?

Answer 11

get a nanny, a professional one. if it doesn't work, go to a family therapy program.