The person that I love was showing signs that he likes me, and stuff. Then, another girl turns up and he's all mean and nasty to me for know reason! I have a broken heart! What do I do???
2006-07-23 07:36:56 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, this person dont deserve u 2 luv. Forget about him & try 2 make more friends with others. I had this experience many years ago. I do seek advice from my friends & even tell them that I want a break. I really struggled for 1 whole weeks night to make the decision. Finally, I did it, but was very, very sad. U know, I"ve treated him very good giving him 100% freedom. His decisions will always come 1st, in the end, I looked back what I"ve done is not appreciated & be treasured, just bcos of the 3rd party coming out! So I quit. Now, I"m married with 4 pretty & intelligence kids, besides, a luving honey hubby! God bless me & u.
2006-07-23 08:05:04 · answer #1 · answered by cancerlady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to gain some closure for yourself. You need to tell him how you feel, lay all of the cards out on the table. Men don't get subtle hints, they need to be hit by a truck before they "get it". Seriously, you don't have anything to lose, your heart is already broken. Muster up some courage and tell him how you feel about him. He won't think you're a fool, if anything his really respect you. He might even feel the same way and then how stupid would it have been if you just never spoke to one another again and missed out on being with "the one". When men get nasty to you it's defensive, it's still his way of liking you but not being able to tell you, because if he really didn't care, he just wouldn't engage in any activities or conversation with you. Any attention, negative or positive, is still attention.
Please tell him how you feel. At least you'll get some closure and can move on and start to heal.
2006-07-23 14:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. Some guys are like that. Don't worry, God will bless you wit a new man. Or perhaps you should stop talking with this person, he is not appreciating you well enough. I have been in this type of situation before.
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I do not have enough info to answer this question at my best so jus e-mail me @ joyce_travieza@yahoo.com since I do not go back to the questions on Yahoo Answers that I already answered.
Tell me of the guy's personality and your personality.
2006-07-23 14:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Yuri ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can be mean 2 u then u shouldnt feel broken hearted u should feel good since ur away from that guy who most proably would have caused u lots of saddness and damage so just dont stress or over think the magic word is be cool and take it lightly and u will see u will have happiness soon .
2006-07-23 14:40:29 · answer #4 · answered by ahmed s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to him at all about it? No, better yet have you guys gone on any dates or anything? Do you guys go out and have fun together? Watch movies together? Do things that couples do? You can't expect something to go somewhere if no one's doing any work. If you guys have been hanging out alot and like each other, then talk to him! Open communication is so important. Please don't do what I did. I lost an incredible girl because of lack of communication. Talk to him and make it happen. Good luck!
2006-07-23 14:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by Jon J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sweet pea.Lots more fish in the sea.remember your the girl ...your prime real estate, you got what every guy wants.Forget him, play a little hard to get, ignore him completely and he will probably come back. and if he don't ...so what ..cast again, go for the bigger better one. when girls chase us, it's to easy and we don't want ya then or for very long anyway. We love a challenge.Or date one of his best friends that's what I do.good luck
2006-07-23 14:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't sit and be sad about it! The best revenge is to get yourself looking the best you ever have, and then show him what a fool he is! By then it will be too late - and he will be kicking himself!!!!! You will realize that he has just shown you his true colors, and you are WAY too good for that type of guy anyway!
2006-07-23 15:06:36 · answer #7 · answered by jill h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he prefers to move on? If he answers with anything other than an immediate, "NO, of course not", then it's time for YOU to move on.. It's over.
Sorry for the broken heart.. those ALWAYS go away.
2006-07-23 14:41:55 · answer #8 · answered by Mich 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chile move on! Can you see the writin on the wall! There is too many guys out there to be worryin about one. Sheesh. He sound like a ho. Evaluate yourself first about who you would like to be with and what you like and go from there. Don't look for no man now, let him find you.
2006-07-23 14:43:36 · answer #9 · answered by bhamphatback 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be strong and move on just be glad you got to see this side of him before you ended up in a position where you would have to see him.
2006-07-23 14:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋