In order for me to have sex I have to be submissive to my girlfriend. I do all the housework, and obey her. If I am good I get sex. Are there many women that require that of their man.
2006-07-23 07:32:44 · 14 answers · asked by todd h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shut up!
If they find out we like it they will stop!
What's wrong with you? You want to blow it for the rest of us too?!?!?
2006-07-23 07:37:10 · answer #1 · answered by iggwad ™ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a pretty unfair and selfish situation. One you should probably open your eyes to. Believe it or not both of you need and enjoy sex. Anyone who tells you differently is lying or playing an angle. Just like both of you make dirty dishes you both enjoy it. It may be more of a hormonal need for sex for a man though (case by case basis) or for the woman. Holding the others needs for ransom is no way to make a healthy relationship. Voice this to her and if she refuses to stay with you otherwise then it's not worthwhile to you. Chances are she's cheating on you behind your back with your best friend anyway.
2006-07-23 07:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Master Kain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change this question around. What would happen if you did this to her?
I believe the answer would be that you were abusive. I have seen this in many domestic violence forums and it is called domestic violence whenever a man dominates a woman.
There are women who will love you for who you are without abusing you. but I also caution you that if this woman wanted to accuse you of rape....all she has to do is say you did. I would save the sex until after marriage.
2006-07-23 07:39:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean why do SOME women like to dominate their men? Same reason why SOME men like to donminate their women.
If being dominated doesn't float your boat, find a different woman.
2006-07-23 07:37:20 · answer #4 · answered by Calina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Lady is very generous taking on someone like you. To begin with, you didn't mention having her permission to discuss this with anyone. You should therefore turn yourself in and post what the standard punishment is. In my house, I own a formidible "for real" whip. It does damage, and I don't "expect" to have to use it more than once.
2006-07-25 08:50:34 · answer #5 · answered by Shady Lady 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I like equal domination. I like to dominate at times, but at other times I like to be submissive. It's all about compromise. If this is bothering you, then you should talk to her about this. Your girlfriend probably got you to believe that all girls like to dominate at all times. That's NOT true!
2006-07-23 07:50:27 · answer #6 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too many unknown variables here.
Why do you allow yourself to be dominated?
Why do some men dominate women?
Why does either party allow this?
Why can't we be partners?
And why, oh why, can't we all just get along?
2006-07-23 16:43:40 · answer #7 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no i'm the opposite i like being dominated....i like getting told what to do like i'm my bf's slave.....i guess everyone likes to take on different roles. as long as ur cool being the submissive one then that's ok but if u like dominating then i'm sorry but ur relationship is gonna have some problems because obviously ur gf is looking 4 someone to submit to her
2006-07-23 07:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We call that a wussy man. Im not saying you should be a controlling jerk but you shouldn't be so submissive. Another term is "whipped".
2006-07-23 07:37:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your happy, but probably its her feitsh and just do it if it makes you happy then tell her what you like
2006-07-23 07:35:21 · answer #10 · answered by garfieldcat04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋