When i show my love she pulls away and says that she is scared of that much love, but when i dont, then she complains cuz i am not being lovey dovy, and she starts talking about the same things that scares her, and then she gets all lovey dovy.. what the freak... whats wrong with this women?
2006-07-23 07:27:55 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women don't understand their self-worth... which is really sad. It might be that she doesn't feel deserving of that much love, so when you show it to her, it sort of freaks her out and she becomes uncomfortable. You really need to make her realize that she deserves it even if she thinks she doesn't, because even if she doesn't see herself as so great and worthy of your unconditional love and affection, that she in fact is. Women respond to words, and so you can tell her that or write it down to her. Good luck.
2006-07-23 07:30:45 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie S 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is the age old question. Nothing is "wrong" with her so to speak, she is just trying to be the one that calls the shots. She is trying to gain an upper hand in the relationship by telling you when you are supposed to be lovey dovey and when you are supposed to leave her alone. She wants to be in control.
Ask yourself one question, do you want to give her the control? IF you love her and you don't want to lose her, then back off and let her call the shots. If you like being the man in the relationship, then put your foot down and demand resepct. You should be able to express your love anyway that you want and if it isn't connecting with this girl, then maybe it is time that you thought about going a different route.
2006-07-23 07:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by Tytania 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
faith has no longer something to do with present day thinking and uncomplicated experience. The C of E have been given it incorrect 40 years in the past whilst it first allowed women folk to be lay preachers or readers. this is unbiblical for a girl to be able to authority or to speak in church. The bible additionally says that god does not exchange his strategies. Its equivalent interior u . s . a . of america has had woman bishops for a whilst now - it even has one at its national presiding bishop. some could say that church's unbiblical-ness is one clarification for its speedy decline.
2016-10-08 05:57:02 · answer #3 · answered by bugenhagen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep reassuring her... There are a lot of guys out there that treat women like dirt... it's normal for her to be afraid of getting her heart broken (yes, it's frustrating, but normal)... She doesn't want to get burned like she probly has before or at least knows several girls who have... Just be patient if you really love her... this is a very minor test of love, marriage has real tests, much harder to deal with.... good luck and don't give the rest of us a bad name.. take care.
2006-07-23 07:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing.She is normal,just try reading her mind and listening and loving and caring and talking and making her feel special....the list goes endless.Read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus.Good luck!
2006-07-23 07:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by aquarian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is unsure or afraid of her own feelings. If this bothers you then move on. A relationship involves 2 people, and if you can't speak about it to her, then it's really not a great union.
2006-07-23 07:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a woman and sometimes we want that lovey dovey stuff and sometimes we don't it sometimes when you feel that way we don't but is she continue to do the off and on thing ask her about.
2006-07-23 07:51:47 · answer #7 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and I dont like it when other women are wishy washy.
They play games to see how devoted you are to them. I choose not to behave that way with my boyfriend.
2006-07-23 07:31:26 · answer #8 · answered by Lola Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's immature. How old is she anyway? Tell her that you can't stand this back and forth behavior. If she continues playing games you should tell her to knock it off or you're gone.
2006-07-23 07:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by It's me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This particular "woman" seems to have a few issues. You need to talk to her and see what is going on with her!
2006-07-23 07:31:18 · answer #10 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋