will she ever find love again?

Question

My sister has two children aged 2&4, she is also pregnant . Recently she got dumped by her partner and feels like she will never find someone again.
What do you think, would you(as a man) ever date a woman who has three children? Or a woman who is pregnant?

Answer 1

first of all she shouldnt be looking for anyone while pregnant she should concentrate on taking care of herself and unborn child.
one she has the baby i think she will find someone i always see and know of people that get married and the new partner adopts or raises someone elses children i think your sister needs to concentrate on the now and dont worry to much about finding a man she doenst need one she has 2 kids and 1 more on the way to worry about !!!

Answer 2

From personal experience let me share this with you. I have 3 children myself and in the process of a divorce. My ex-husband and I have been separated for almost 3 years now and Im engaged to a wonderful man. So hon the answer is YES she will find love again.

The trick is not to look. Love will find her when she least expects it. It is a package deal, you cannot have the woman without the kids and any man worth his salt will love her kids as his own.

Answer 3

actually hon, I've known of persons who not only found someone else to date, but eventually got married. what i suggest though is that you encourage your sister to wait, take her time get herself settled and not look to find another partner. if she needs financial, physical or emotional support you and the rest of the family should rally around her. she needs to set her priorities which are her children first then her second, whoever she looks to bring into those children lives must be secure and settled. i think after she has the baby, she should examine her options, go back to school if need be, get herself sorted out, those children are looking to her as an example, tell her make sure it's the best. anyhow all the best.

Answer 4

I think the last thing she needs to think about right now is dating. She needs to concentrate on her babies and the one growing inside of her. I would say she should wait to start dating until the baby is at least six months old. Small babies need lots of attention and need their mommies around. After that, tell her to go to match.com or another reputable website. I was a single mother without a lot of time to date and I did not want to go to bars looking for a man. She will find love again but please I hope she concentrates on those babies for a while. She needs to be strong for them. I am sorry for her though, what kind of a**hole who dump his pregnant girlfriend/wife?

Answer 5

Sometimes the fact is so painful, but I've to tell you about it. Perhaps when your sister pregnant, there's no man will date her, but after she born her baby maybe there's someone who will ask her for a date, and if this man is a good guy, who can accept your sister condition, I believe they will in a serious relationship. And if they could understand each other, maybe they can get married and your sister can life happily.

I'll pray for your sister happiness.....

Answer 6

Heck ya. I'm a single dad with 2 kids and was married for 5 years. Now with having kids women here don't want to date a guy with 2 full time kids at home. Tell her to keep her head up. If i was there i would maybe date her though. I would have to get to know her first.

Answer 7

Not a man here but was a single mom with three children. You find men who are much more serious about commitment. I was remarried a year after my divorce. I am still able to be a stay at home mom.

Answer 8

Toughest Q out there. Perhaps, but most guys would believe a pregnant woman to be taboo; however, I have friends who have a solid relationship with single moms with as many children. Keep the faith; there are decent guys out there.

Answer 9

well i found a good man and i had two kids and now 1 from him hes the best partner i ever had ,respectfull doesnt go out drink smoke nothing!! shell find someone but it will take time help her out with the kids so she can go out atleast on saturdays and meet someone after she gives birth ,but her man will probably come back i no shes hurt cause shes gonna have his baby and hes not around

Answer 10

I think she'll find a man who's gone through something similar as her--had children w/ previous girls but the girls left him, and he's still a responsible father--of course, he'll be a bit older, say, a guy in his late 20's to 40's....or she won't find him for a couple more years. But yea, I think it's possible she'll find a great guy who can understand and accept her situation.