even their small wishes i did not fulfill
2006-07-23 06:16:11 · 15 answers · asked by sinner 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You are responsible for your own life. You have a free will to do and choose what you want. It is up to you to save your soul.
God is a just and gentle God and that is why He gives you several chances to change your life. It is not too late to change for the better.
Both your parents and God believe in you. Make them proud.
Good luck!
G.G.
2006-07-23 07:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, neither. God is loving and kind. Forever. And you're not fated to be a horrible son. What is horrible is your choice to become a horrible person. Christians, for example, do not believe that God's salvation has to do with good work. Plenty of good work in life without accepting the Lord will lead that person to nowhere. Now back to your question. It depends on what you think is horrible. Fulfilling wishes, may i say, sometimes wishes are hard and rather impossible to achieve even if they're simple if they don't come in term with you. What i say here, they may be simple but has very high expectations in it. Start slow, explore your needs and self. Get to know the meaning of your existence and your relationship with each other. Explore yourself. Know God. With God, He will help you answer to all your needs and believe me, i've gone through it. Hope this helps.
2006-07-23 06:25:04 · answer #2 · answered by Springboard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sinner,
Do not make the mistake of thinking that you are being controlled by someone or something outside yourself. God created you with a totally free will. If you are inclined to do things that bring pain to others, it is because you have chosen to. Here is a paraphrase of a story that Jesus told. There was a man who had two sons. He asked the first son to go out and work in his fields. His son said that he would. The man asked his second son, to also go out in the field and work. The son said no. Although the first son told his father what he wanted to hear, he never did go out into the fields to work. Later that day, the second son, started to feel bad about the way he had treated his father, and went out into the fields to work. Sometimes, we rebel against those who love us, and treat them very badly. Later on, we can have a change of heart, and do what is right. Don't write yourself off. Your life is not over. Jesus came to earth to bring us a simple message. "The Kingdom of God is within you". If you come to God as a humble child, and invite Him into your heart, He will send His Spirit into you. You then become a new creature, part mortal, part Immortal. The old values of materialism and fear, fall away. Love and Wisdom become the foundation for all of your choices. You will never be the same again. Some time when you have the chance, find a bible, and read the story of the Prodigal Son, in Luke 15-16. You will find that God will recieve you in love, the very moment you realize that you have messed up, and want to make things right.
2006-07-23 06:36:01 · answer #3 · answered by Will O' the Wisp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you're talking about because I don't know what your parents wanted for you. Some parents want to control all the choices their children make, even as adults, but only you can live your life and find your own path. If you're happy and fulfilled and descent and law abiding, eventually your parents will appreciate that. If you aren't those things, pray to God and ask for help, it's never too late!
2006-07-23 06:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you think you are so terrible? Who made you feel this way? I have good news for you. It doesn't matter. You know why? You are loved...really, really loved by the Creator of all things...and He created you through your parents for a very special reason. So I want you to make friends, be happy, and not worry about this. Find your joy where you can...and when you can't; I want you to pray...and it isn't hard...it is just talking to God...and He will hear you. You are trying very hard to be a good son...and God sees this, even if your parents don't. It just means they don't understand you. All you can do is your very best...you can't do anything else. Your "Best" is good enough, I promise you...so I hope you believe me. We all make mistakes. It is human to make mistakes, God does not expect perfection...He loves you just the way you are. Okay?
2006-07-23 06:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by riverhawthorne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you going to do next, wear a hair shirt, or beat yourself with a whip?
Two things:
One, you need to be yourself. You come into this world on your own, and you go out the same way.
Two, yeah, you need to interact with your parents. Don't know what you mean by the 'small wishes' part, but there is some give and take there. Nobody, and I mean nobody turns out exactly the way their parents wish. Those that try usually end up killing themselves because it is simply not possible.
-Dio
2006-07-23 06:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by diogenese19348 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't be all bad, or you wouldn't be concerned about your "good parents'" wishes! Life isn't over - maybe you really want someone to tell you to get on the right track! Everything happens for a reason - so although we don't understand, like when a child is killed or tsunamis take thousands of lives, we have to believe that God has a plan for us.
2006-07-23 06:23:15 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your present attitude is the first step toward real change. Follow through. Remember that far from being cruel, God isloving and forgiving.
2006-07-23 06:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fate doesn't exist and God is not cruel. You sinned of your own power and free will.
2006-07-23 06:19:00 · answer #9 · answered by ©2007 answers by missy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you did was from your own free will. Don't agonize about it now. Start now and do things the right way. Learn from your mistakes.
2006-07-23 06:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by clarity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋