I had a person post a answer to one of my previous questions that gave way to another question. How much sex is to much for a man. I am not bragging or anything, due to a recent move I actually havn't had sex for about 7 weeks now. But being an alright looking guy I've been around a little. I need to know is that a bad thing. I guess this is really more of a question for women because men (my friends included) believe that a guy could never have to much sex. Where is the limit before a man becomes nothing more than a "male sl*t". And once again I am certanly not bragging so please don't take it that way.
2006-07-23 06:13:42 · 21 answers · asked by the_world_is_yours44 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I do not think it is a question of too much sex, it more that you may become desensitized to females. Should that happen how will you know when that special person comes along. Surely
it should be getting to know a person and wanting to have sex with them because you have feelings for them. Other wise it becomes meaningless.Also what value do you put on yourself?
That is the question you could ask yourself which might help you.
2006-07-23 06:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say if your with a different chick each week end and bounce back and forth from one to another then that is too much. If your in a lsting relationship for a yr or two then someone else. your ok. Girls like to brag as well as guys do so you might want to change the class of people you hang out with and I am certain you will find someone of interest :)
2006-07-23 06:18:02 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the answer to the question of how many lovers should you have had to this point should be equal to the same number that you would want your WIFE to have at this point in her life. I am guessing you are single, but I think this is a prety good guage of human behavior. Promiscuity is nothing to brag about, rather self control and holding yourself "sacred/special" for a few people you are sharing a deep spiriitual connection with is. Discover "Tantric sex"..Sting has made this famous, you will understand the true gift thatsex really is...it's not quantity...it is quality, sex isn't a numbes game and it dilutes your attitude of appreciateion for the beauty of it, no? How many of those women's names do you remember, how many of them can you recall the curve at the small of their back? be safe.
2006-07-23 06:24:05 · answer #3 · answered by Marlin Darlin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I'm not a woman but I'll throw my opinion out there. If you ever plan on getting married know this: Any sex you have pre-maritally will come back to you, and not in a good way. If you do not plan on marriage then all you really have to worry about is getting a sexually transmitted disease or accidentally impregnating one of your partners. No one else cares how much sex a man has.
2006-07-23 06:19:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cybeq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not bad that you have not had sex in a few weeks i know of a few women who have not had sex in a year. when u find the right one you'll know. but it is a turn off to know that is all you want from women. u should take this time to find out what you want. get your stuff together and then continue to look. but in my opinion, as a woman in the mid 20s i find it sexy that a man does not go out lookn for sex. so no its not bad if it had been a year id say so find someone quick and dont stop. but you are new to your area and you just need to find someone special .
2006-07-23 06:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got something built in to make babies and be the king of the hill. This doesn't help much in building relationships, but it puts children on this planet. That's why you have the urge. Now, somepeople have a relationship and do it with one person and actually make something long term with real intimacy, so when you're older and not quite such a stud, you'll have someone to hold your hand or your walker.
2006-07-23 06:17:25 · answer #6 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are safe I guess it is what it is right
However, If you are breaking hearts and making babies all along the way then that is not cool.
I know it can be hard for men today what with the way some females dress and carry themselves, just throwin' it out there for the first victim that comes along. I know this.
Let's hope you have some standards at least.
Have fun!
Some young thing will come along and sweep you off your feet one day, believe me.
You have not experienced life until you have experienced real, true want to kill for, love.
2006-07-23 06:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your not married and just running around being NASTY that's very immoral and it just ain't right.....it sounds like you feel guilty so obviously u know what you're doing ain't right.....I think it's good that you can at least address what you're doing wrong...and u should stop listening to those dummies who tell you there's never a limit on how much sex you should be having (if your NOT married).....they're just immature......so basically don't have sex anyomre until you meet the right girl and get married...
2006-07-23 06:22:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well actually I really don't kno, I guess it becomes a problem when every female knos how you are. If me and my girlfriends are chilling at a restaurant or someplace and we see a guy and we all kno what he's about then I think that is when it becomes a problem. If a girl can hear your name in a sentence or see you and be like umm he's a playa, then that is the limit.
2006-07-23 06:20:05 · answer #9 · answered by Chelly Belly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the love of God you have a "backed up load" and your gonna blow the back of some poor girls head off!......LMAO!
Seriously, I don't think there are any limits on men or women where sex is concerned, society has just taught women to be more discreet while discussing certain things so we don't get labeled as a whore!
2006-07-23 06:19:18 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋