I'm not saying all women are like this, but it sometimes seems that women would prefer to be with someone just because they may look a little better than someone else even though that guy may treat her awful. Then when that relationship doesn't work out they wonder why. I was wondering why most women would rather put themselves through the hurt later in the relationship than be with someone who would love them more and more each day and for who they are on the inside rather than just going by looks alone.
2006-07-23 05:44:53 · 7 answers · asked by Roller Coaster Enthusiast 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we say we want a nice guy because we really really do want a nice guy. They are perfect - they know how to treat a lady, they are great lovers, and they are really sweet & thoughtful.
However, girls usually go for the ones who turn out to be the real jerks instead because that is what our parents have warned us against since we were little.Women go for them because its a form of rebelling against parents wishes (no matter what their age is) and if the parents warn them so heavily that the bad boys are really really bad guys... it just makes us want them more.
The "bad guys" who are usually rebels, following the least travelled roads; the ones who look at you like they're undressing you in their minds & then wink & smile at you; the ones with the long hair, tatoos, piercings, and bad attitudes.
but if you good guys are willing to bear with us, and stick around through us going gaga over the badboys, you will be 'greatly rewarded' when you're there for us when we need a shoulder to cry on when the bad guy hurts us by cheating or leaving. And that's when the women go after the good guys, when we're on the rebound after getting hurt by the badboys.
2006-07-23 05:59:02 · answer #1 · answered by Tory 3 · 15⤊ 6⤋
All women want someone who will treat her right. Having said that, sometimes "nice" means boring and predictable. A woman wants a man who will keep her on her toes, who doesn't predict what he will do in the next five minutes. A woman wants a man who is a bad boy one minute, exciting and wild and free, but one who will also take responsibility for his actions and not blame others when something doesn't go right. No matter how good you think your relationship is, you will get hurt, because we're all human, and we have the capacity of hurting and of being hurt; being nice or not has nothing to do with it.
2006-07-23 06:00:32 · answer #2 · answered by kellygirlaj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometime you don't realize how the guy really is until later. Plus some put on a fake face when you first meet. I mean have you ever been your honest self the first time you meet a girl you like and try to get them to like you??
i usually go for the cute and nice guy who always makes me laugh but sometimes they turn out to be jerks. Some were just better as friends.
2006-07-23 05:57:21 · answer #3 · answered by fairytale_dreamer22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somewhere in the deep recesses of mate selection is an urge to pursue the leader of the pack, whether it be a bad boy or a tall, strong handsome guy. Once the hormones start flying her natural instincts come into play and not thoughts that this guy won't be the right one in the long term. Secondly, you can't say you'd be to the one to love her since it takes many months of dating someone to know someone well enough and have been with them in conflict resolution to know that.
2006-07-23 05:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tony T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what the guy is like and looks like and how he acts around me. i knew a nice guy once in high school. i let him touch my boobs and i think i was his first for that. anyway, he did something i didnt like and i ran away. later about 7 years i ran into him and he asked me to go to a movie, i agreed. on the way home he asked me why i was going out with him and giving him a 2nd chance. i did not see my self as dating him....he didnt ask me to be exclusive to him, just to a movie! i saw it as old friends going to a movie...i had to let him down easy.
then i met my current boyfriend. he is nice and respectful and easy going and a giant smart as.s and i love it! its exactly what i was looking for. the first nice guy had no sense of humor ><
2006-07-23 05:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOMEN CAN'T FIGURE OUT WHAT THEY WANT..........FACT OF LIFE
2006-07-23 05:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by michael h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they dont know what they do
2006-07-23 05:53:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nalin S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋