get a womans interest is to make eye contact with her and smile, and then don't even look at her after that ( allow her to come to you) Is there any truth to this?
2006-07-23 05:28:54 · 21 answers · asked by lefty 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer to be approached !!!
2006-07-23 05:40:00 · answer #1 · answered by levans020 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I was told once (perhaps I read it) that the person with the control in a relationship is the one with the least amount invested in it. So if he makes eye contact and then pretends to not be interested anymore, he might gain the interest of the girl he looked at, because now she's thinking of him...yeah I think I'd fall for that.
2006-07-23 12:34:51 · answer #2 · answered by stacey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the type of girl that needs the guy to come up to me...after you smile, and look away, then a little while later, I would find her in the crowd, and say how her smile/eyes caught yours, and ask if you can buy her a drink or dance?
Some girls are like that, but most need the guys to make the move, at least with my friends and I
Good luck!
2006-07-23 12:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had it up until "don't even look at her after that." Some women still like to be approached. But yes, initially that eye contact and smile says to her, "hey, i'm stopping what i'm doing and forgetting the whole room as I appreciate you." That'll crank anyone's motor.
2006-07-23 12:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Scadle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's stupid............if you looked at me and turned away and didn't look at me after that, I'd think you just saw me and that's it. If you're interested, don't be a coward, just go up and talk to her. Most women hate that game. If you make eye contact, do it long enough to see if she reciprocates and gives you the same contact back, you'll know if somethings there, you'll feel it.
2006-07-23 12:36:13 · answer #5 · answered by Theresa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to the girl and talk to her. Ask her questions about her self. They like that. Show her she is worth something, not just for sex. Yes, make eye contact and be polite.
2006-07-23 12:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are interested in her then go talk to her. do a little flirting and let it go from there. cuz she maybe doing the same thing with the eye contact and smile and waiting for you to come to her.
2006-07-23 12:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by browneyedgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me. If I guy makes eye contact and then doesn't make a move, I assume he isn't interested. If he comes over and introduces himself, I engage in conversation.
2006-07-23 12:32:37 · answer #8 · answered by xXPolitically IncorrectXx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i smile alot and people alway look my way and and if a Hot Lady i Hello and i Keep it Moving and like to Talk for little but.
2006-07-23 12:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Everyone makes eye contact. My guy got me when he winked and smiled.
2006-07-23 12:32:57 · answer #10 · answered by Suga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, make sure the look is longer than a quick glance and shorter than a stare. Smell nice and look good. Have confidence in your look.
2006-07-23 12:33:01 · answer #11 · answered by Snowey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋