2006-07-23 04:49:06 · 5 answers · asked by everafter 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh girl what's wrong with you? you KNOW you're not supposed to be friends with benefits for exactly this reason. He just looks at you as constant poon. You gotta stop doing it. You have to play hard to get, and DO NOT give it up anymore. It's not gonna work by just talking. You gotta learn the game. He'll say come on, and you just gotta say nah, i'm kinda done with that. STOP being fw/b and then, he'll come beggin and he'll miss you more. it's the dynamic. the more you pull back, the more he'll come after. Then when he can't resist you anymore, go on a date with him or something, and don't give it up. You gotta stop what you're doing now, and start from scratch like a normal relationship, because the roles right now are all screwed up.
2006-07-23 04:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't ever think to be a friend with benefit if u really want to be a good friend simply behave like a good friend
2006-07-23 04:54:07 · answer #2 · answered by saheli m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Sorry, no more free sex. I need to know if this is going to lead somewhere. If so, let's talk about it. If not, I still want you as a friend, but you need to look elsewhere for sex. I can't do this anymore, it makes me feel used, and I have more self respect than that."
2006-07-23 04:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him hey there is nothing wrong with the sex but I would love to spend a little more time with you without spreading my legs or swallowing your Johnson and then brushing my teeth and leaving.
2006-07-23 04:53:52 · answer #4 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain the benefits first, then automatically friendship develops. o.k. good luck.
2006-07-23 04:55:18 · answer #5 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋