how do you tell your mum and dad that im going to move to another country?

Question

how do i tell them i might not see them as much any more im finding it hard to say it

Answer 1

I'd explain to them why you're moving and all the positive aspects of the move. Promise them you'll keep in touch with phone calls, pictures, and e-mails. In this digital age, you can connect with someone across the globe in a matter of seconds! And unless you're going to go live in the middle of nowhere, there'll be computers and phones to talk to them with...

Also, if you can afford it, try and make it home for big holidays or celebrations, or just for the heck of it every once in a while. Your visits will become more infrequent, but in this way they will also become more treasured.

I know it'll be hard - I'm going to have to face the same thing in a few years when I go study abroad and then become a foreign service officer - but it's best to tell them as soon as you can, so they can adjust to the news and start thinking ahead, instead of dwelling on the fact that they're not going to be able to see you all the time.

Good luck!

Answer 2

I had to do that last Feb. I moved about 9,000 miles away from home to work in South Korea as an English teacher (and to make lots o' $$$).

They tried everything in their power to get me to stay. But, ultimately, it was my choice, as it is my life. It's only for a year, so it's not forever. But here's what I would do to help with the transition:

*tell them you will call them, and when you get there, tell them ways to call you
*the Internet is a wonderful thing, and say you'll e-mail them often, and update them about your life
* there are programs where you can call people through the Internet, for alot cheaper than a regular phone card (i.e. Skype). You might wanna try that.
* There is also Instant Messaging (IM).

Basically, there are tons of ways to keep in touch, as long as you got access to a computer or a phone. Hope this helps! (Tell them it will be OK, and that you'll keep in touch!)

Answer 3

You don't say how old you are, which could have some bearing on the question. Are your parents elderly (over 70)? It might be very hard on them, knowing you are not nearby.

In any event, you *probably* should have let them in on whatever negotiations were under way that resulted in your job offer. Nevertheless, they surely have some idea that you have been looking for work in Country X, and won't be thunderstruck that you have landed a position.

Good luck, either way!

Answer 4

You should already prepare your parents and tell them that you have something important to say that they might be shocked about. Then during a quiet dinner, or meal, tell them that you've decided to move, and give them the positive reasons why, and also promise them that you'll keep in touch.

Answer 5

Best way - write them a note or letter telling them the facts. Then after they have had an hour or two to get over the shock and think a bit. Show up to talk it over with them.

Answer 6

Well first just tell them that you love them no matter what and let them know that the move will never stop you from loving them and promise to stay in contact cards emails phone calls and visit when time permits! Just keep reassuring them that your love for them will never change!! Best wishes

Answer 7

Being a parent, my first inclination when I read this was
how old are you
and why
if it is for career reasons and you are an adult
then, even though it would be difficult I could understand.
If it is because you are moving for a relationship, I would be very against it.

Answer 8

Tell them that you feel it is time for you to move from under their roof and move under a roof of your own, which will be in a totally different country.

Answer 9

Explain the economic opportunity you will have. Don't tell them you won't be able to see them as much. Tell them you hope they will enjoy visiting you in a new exciting place.

Answer 10

Mum, I'm, moving to another country.