My guy is sweet but doesnt do the romance thing. How can I help him?
2006-07-23 04:43:44 · 5 answers · asked by jonesywonesy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him a hint as to what you'd like him to do/say...hand him a book of poetry with your favorite poem and ask him to read it to you....mention you'd like to go out to dinner or something...or go for a walk...that kind of thing...
2006-07-23 04:48:29 · answer #1 · answered by gokart121 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough truth: he's just not that into you.
maybe he finds you lonely and attention starved, or maybe he doesn't like that you spend a lot of time on the internet? it's okay though, being 40 is tough! i wouldn't know though, i just turned 22 a few months ago. you should get a book called "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt. He's on Oprah a lot, and he knows what he's talking about. as for me, all the guys i've dated have been super romantic and really sweet and affectionate. maybe it's just the vibe your putting out there.
good luck sweetie! :)
2006-07-23 16:22:46 · answer #2 · answered by DFA79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him what to do. Because when he does it, you know it wasn't sincere, it was just because you told him.
You can drop hints about, "Oh, I'd love to be picked up and taken out to a nice dinner" or, "I love the opera", but don't give him step-by-step instructions. It will be unsatisfying for you both.
2006-07-23 04:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by craftman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man is romantic with a beautiful women naturally. Either your man is gay or you are not beautiful. Take your pick woman and leave us alone with your trivial agenda.
2006-07-23 04:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow to medium fast music, dance, dinner (with candle light or not), moon watching, watching sun-set or other beautiful scenery, watch a love movie, kiss kiss kiss.
2006-07-23 06:30:33 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋