I have a close friend, she's simply so beautiful, the most beautiful girl I've ever seen, and she's 17. She lives with her mother, and nobody knows who her father is. Now I simply love her and I really wanted to be her boyfriend, but she said that she had no interest in boys and told me that she's lesbian. Okay, I can understand it. It's about preference. But then she told me that her first time is her MOTHER and she did it all the time with her, and she never make it with anyone else. When I asked her why, she told me that she and her mum never believed in any man, that they believed that all male are suck, and women are always kind to them. It probably has something to do with the girl's father. And she made it with her mum as an expression of immense love between the two ladies. Well, you might think that they're both hate all man but no, as a matter of fact I could be her close friend and her mum's very kind to me. What do you think of them? I'm now looking for a girlfriend.
2006-07-23 04:35:08 · 13 answers · asked by the conspirator 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
No, it does not "sound kinky". It sounds more like a confused teenager trapped into an incestuous relationship with an emotionally-sick abusive relative.
You should speak to your friend and explain her that what she is doing is not normal, and it's probably caused by the strong psychological trauma that "the father affair" left on her and her mother. (as with the fear of men they have).
You should let her know how worried you are for her and her mom, both are victims of what happened to them, and they need to seek psychological counseling to sort this thing out and be able to continue with their lives.
There's nothing wrong with homosexuality, but an incestuous relationship may screw things up for both of them in ways they cannot possibly imagine. They need to make it stop and overcome their trauma torwards men so that they can go on with their lives in a fullfilling and normal manner.
You should speak to them and tell them your concern, tell them to seek counseling. If they refuse to listen, you should start considering calling social services. But that might also screw things up terribly. Try all other alternatives first.
2006-07-23 04:47:08 · answer #1 · answered by Firefox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both mother and daughter need some serious help. The mother should be arrested and jailed for having sexual relations with her daughter. No mother who truly loves her child would ever consider have sexual relations with them. I think that the best way for you to be her friend is make a phone call to social services. That young girl needs some real help.
2006-07-23 11:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Mary J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 17 year old friend has been abused by the one person she should have been able to trust; I think you should call Children's Protective Services and let them know. She definitely will need counseling. If this had been a DAD and a daughter, he would be put in jail, and it's no different when it is a mom.
You can call anonymously from a pay phone, but please call, you will be doing her an immense favor in the long run.
cryllie
2006-07-23 11:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's havin' "sex" with her mom? That is GROSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSI bet you anything her mom is a very mulipative person and brainwashed her daughter into that lifestyle or to at least have sex with her. The best thing you can do for her if you care for her that much is to call the police on her mom. They won't know your the one that made the call. Don't take this matter lightly. Would you want to f*ck your DAD? nope didn't think so.
2006-07-23 11:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by lost_carolina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that all this coz. of the father i think he treated her mother very bad in a way which made her made her daughter hate all men anyway u should be 1 of her close friends & make her feel that not all men r bad like what she think"good luck"
2006-07-23 11:50:54 · answer #5 · answered by sose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should call your local child protection service. If you don't want to do that yourself you should tell adult you trust like your parents or a school counselor. Your friend really needs your help.
2006-07-23 11:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by krismas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is the most disgusting thing I have heard all day and i think that is horrible! That girls mother has scarred her and traumatized her for life! Someone should call CPS or something, I'm pissed.
2006-07-23 11:41:19 · answer #7 · answered by BlkBeauty24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her, you will help her. YOU SHOULD REPORT THIS! You don't have to give your name. This is sooooo wrong! She will thank you,
in the end. NOW! ASAP!!!!
2006-07-23 23:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by ~Terr~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call CSB on her, that is illegal no matter what. Not to mention sick, sick, sick (with the mom thing, not the lesbian thing)
2006-07-23 16:27:26 · answer #9 · answered by Megan P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what they say, incest is fine as long as you keep it in the family.
haha
2006-07-23 11:45:18 · answer #10 · answered by Azure Demure 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋