Some guys are men of steel when it comes to things like this. I know sometimes women either do this out of spite to get him upset or they just do it and want to confess about or they deliberately do it to see how he will react. Either of the ways it was done. If he didn't seem to give a damn, Would you be hurt that it didn't hurt him in the least bit? Kind of like backfiring in your face. I'm talking about even if you showed a video of it, or took pictures, or deliberately waited until he got home so you'd be caught with the other guy doing it. Any extreme you can take it, and he didn't give a damn no matter what. He could care less. How would you feel?
2006-07-23 04:33:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol.... those are some scenarios!!! first off any female that says this just to get a reaction from her guy... is nuts! and no doubt a guy that puts up with that would act like he doesn't care just to shut her up...I would never do such a thing to begin with... but as a hypothetical explanation.. if you were serious and said that to a guy and he didn't care/ react.. then it would mean he really doesn't have any feelings for you or he puts on a good act..and it might be time to find a guy that cares and is able to express his feelings...
2006-07-23 04:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Fortune 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, the only reason I can think of that would make her tell you she cheated is to hurt you. If that's the case, what the hell difference does your reaction make to her?
If you doesn't seem hurt by it, she probably feels un-fulfilled. She wanted to see the hurt on your face and in your eyes. I hope she finds a guy who will do the same to her.
People who are in a relationship, cheat, and then run tell their lover that they cheated deserve any and all bad things that come their way, short of physical violence.
If you are dating the kind of person who does this ... I really hope you look for a new woman who is totally different from her. Whatever qualities that once drew you to her ... recognize them and stay away from them.
If you showed no negative reaction ... good for you. You took away all her fun. If this happens again ... just tell her that it's fine, all you wanted was her body, anyway. Then, turn and walk away.
Good luck on finding a woman who knows how to be true.
2006-07-23 04:40:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely first of all if I ever cheated i does no longer do it to income interest and that's what it form of feels like your lady is doing. Taking %., video clips, getting caught...it form of feels like she needs you to pay interest on her!!!! Anywayz I in all risk could sense somewhat harm with the aid of fact if a individual cheats then some thing is lacking in the relationship and in case you do no longer care then i think which ability the relationship ability no longer something and if I cheated then which ability some thing is lacking additionally. cheating is the two a call that the relationship isn't working and that they do no longer desire to be with you, or that they've some severe sexual urges that isn't be in a position of be tamed. i'm hoping this helps...sturdy success!!!
2016-10-08 05:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by cosco 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry I'm not a female but that would bug the hell out of me. Unfortunately, I wouldn't be in much of a position to complain if I was the one who cheated on her. The fact that being honest and keeping promises isn't important to her would be a very bad sign.
Now if we were in an open relationship and having sex with someone else wasn't considered cheating, that would be different. Because then I'd be allowed and it wouldn't involve dishonesty or breaking a promise.
2006-07-23 04:36:42 · answer #4 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear heart of steel!
Simple.. If a person cheats, why get all excited over it.. they don't deserve that satisfaction of knowing they hurt you. especially if they felt the need to betray you to begin with.. you just have to shake it off and say next... If the man was even really in love with her.. she has no right to feel hurt by his non-chalance attitude..because if she really loved him this would not even come to the table.... Regardless of the circumstance we all have a right to react to things differently and cheating is a bad thing... so you have no rights to feel hurt except by your own actions as a cheater.. She messed up.. point blank.. why get dramatic!!
2006-07-23 04:47:12 · answer #5 · answered by Angelisa Smiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would probably feel hurt because that would indicate that he probably wanted the relationship to end anyway and hadn't told me, or possibly that he had been cheating on me as well and this was his easy way out.
2006-07-23 04:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by athena1213 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a misguided relationship.
Start over.
Build a relationship on things that will last like honor, fidelity, sacrifice and dignity.
2006-07-23 04:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULDN'T BE HURT IT WOULD JUST LET ME KNOW THAT HE REALLY DON'T GIVE A **** ABOUT ME AND THE RELATIONSHIP. HE ALSO MAY HAVE BEEN DOING HIS OWN THING BUT I WOULD WORRY ABOUT THE WAY HE FEEL, EVEN IF HE DOESN'T SHOW IT. HE WILL BE HURTING.
2006-07-23 04:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely I would be hurt!
Either he didn't care in the first place, or he'd already done it himself.
2006-07-23 04:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its tit for tat... it'll teach her a lesson all rite !! maybe he feels hurt inside... most guys dont show it... he ought not to give a damn and move on with his life... that girl aint worth his time, love and money...
2006-07-23 04:40:41 · answer #10 · answered by Meooww 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋