2006-07-23 03:51:50 · 33 answers · asked by ania d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
threesome
2006-07-23 03:53:45 · answer #1 · answered by Tony D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave him alone and give him time to grow up.
I don't think he IS your boyfriend, and wishing won't make it so. The worse thing you can do in this situation is to pursue him. Whether there was a disagreement prior to this or not, you need to stop sharing with your friend about it, because third parties only muddle things up worse, and wait till he has enough guts to either call you or until you have enough sense to realize he's not worth waiting on. Go enjoy the weather, a movie, shop-anything but sitting around and moping. Do something positive and you will feel better. Visit a nursing home and do nails for the ladies...write your grandma....take your little brothers to McDonald's.....life is good and too good to waste fretting over an immature boy.
blessings,
cryllie
2006-07-23 04:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by cryllie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young. If you are able to talk to mom or dad about this please do so.
Although I would like a little more information about your question I will see if I can answer.
Everyone goes through a learning process while dating. We need to learn, usually starting in adolescence, how to find appropriate people to establish a relationship with. And in this process there will be a few (sometimes many) very inappropriate people. I'm thinking you may have found one of the inappropriate ones in your "boyfriend". Although there is nothing wrong with our romantic interests speaking to other people from the tone of your question it sounds like "boyfriend" is giving your friend attention that he should be giving you. If this is indeed the case, congratulations, you just learned one way to filter out the "rats".
So, dust yourself off, and try again. You will attract the right person, I promise, but do not let the "rats" pull you to the bottom with them. Good luck and please, talk to mom or dad about this, or a trusted older adult, you need some guidance while you are learning to make the right decisions in this matter. Peace.
2006-07-23 04:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him u want to have a serious talk with him alone.. Ask him why he's been acting so strange and why he has been calling ur friend.. Tell him that if he doesnt like u anymore u would appriciate it if he told u in the face rather than acting like this.. Ask him to be honest with him because girl u r not his toy and if this guy doesnt know how to appriciate and respect u then leave him..
2006-07-23 03:58:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to discuss it with him, which might be hard since he doesn't talk to you. Best to break up, give the reasons you posted, and aspire to having a boyfriend who talks to YOU and pays attention to YOU instead of your friend.
2006-07-23 03:54:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa that dont sound good. i hope this friend is not a girl cuz he shouldnt be calling any girl but u.if he dont talk to u then what are u doing with him. ur his gf hes supposed to come to u and tell u what going on. u need to tell ur friend u dont like her talking to ur man and she should respect that cuz thats ur friend right. then tell him what wrong with him and why cant he tell u whats he tells ur friend.also make sure u tell him u dont want him talking to ur friend. if dont agree then drop him. u need a guy who will come to u and trust in u right. hes not doing that.good luck
2006-07-23 03:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him and tell him how you are feeling, why do you never call me,spend time with me, and all ways call my friend, if this does not change then we will have to end the relation ship. Tell him to make an effort if he loves you.
Brooke
2006-07-23 03:55:58 · answer #7 · answered by soon_to_be_young_author 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest you find someone else. Your boyfriend,since he talks to your friend,and not you,seems more interested in your friend. The best you can do,is to forget about him,and just move one to someone else. Good Luck.
2006-07-23 03:55:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jeremy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you could sit him down nicely and ask him what is afraid of hurting your feeling about telling you something is wrong or even if he is scared of talking to you cause he is afaid of losing you tell him no matter what he says you will still be there no matter how stupid or off the wall it maybe unless he says it is over or something tell him you are there for him no matter what
2006-07-23 03:56:45 · answer #9 · answered by skyppolar_green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just see wht is missing in the relationship and ask him with a positive and understanding way wht is the resone for such a behaviour. or else dump such a guy
2006-07-23 03:56:47 · answer #10 · answered by ray 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has dumped you and is putting the moves on your friend. If you can't communicate, move on now!
2006-07-23 03:55:18 · answer #11 · answered by whozethere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋