2006-07-23 03:09:38 · 7 answers · asked by greeneyedgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I went on seven different dates with seven different guys--- all of which I found online (craigslist, actually... I don't recommend it for dating). I talked to them all online from anywhere between a week and two months before meeting them. Here's a rundown of what NOT to do:
-Don't overanalyze what he writes in an email. Remember that emails don't convey emotions and if you act all psycho over an off-hand comment that he made, he might freak.
-You can mention past relationships, but don't go into too much detail and don't say specifically "I like/dislike (blank) about my ex." No one likes to be compared.
-Don't tell him that you miss him or that he turns you on or anything like that. I actually had a guy do that to me and I went running... why? because he didn't even KNOW me!
-Don't lie about yourself. You're on the internet and you have nothing to hide. Once he meets you and finds out you're not what you claimed to be, he'll leave.
-Don't talk about how many people you've had sex with or the details of what you've done. This can come up later.
-Don't give out your address and meet him in a well-lit area. This is just a personal safety thing.
I should also mention that I just moved in with my number seven. You have to sort through a lot of trash on the internet, but there are some great catches out there. Good luck!
2006-07-23 05:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Robyn F. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't say your looking for a serious relationship, you just want to meet people for a potencial relationship. No pressure. Don't give out to much info or bagage from previous relationships.
2006-07-23 10:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by rene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving out personal info is a big mistake.....don't give phone #...they may end up being stalkers.
2006-07-23 10:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they never send enough naked pictures.
really.. the guy is going to beat it up eventually. that's whythe girl is trying to get with him. she should definently include some more full body nudes...maybe throw in some with some sweet poses.
actually...full motion video is best..but..really... show some skin if you wanna put it in.
that's what i always say.
2006-07-23 10:18:24 · answer #4 · answered by smartyphred 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same ones that they make otherwise.
2006-07-23 10:12:57 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talking about marriage
talking about past boyfriends
2006-07-23 10:14:52 · answer #6 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling how their ex's did them wrong.
2006-07-23 10:12:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋