2006-07-23 02:52:22 · 11 answers · asked by Matet G 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
Find out the truth about the situation. Is your child doing something to that parents child and was being scolded for it? Most parents today beleive that their child can do no wrong. I have witnessed children doing things that the parents do not think is bad but when it is done to them by some one elses child it is an outrage!
2006-07-23 09:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by Daniel Z 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing I feel like doing it punching them in the face. While this is not acceptable in anyway - as a parent I feel like doing that. It's really hard to approach someone who is bullying a child. You would think that they would not better as an adult - but some people never grow up, no matter how old they get. You should probably find some time when you could talk about what happened and address the situation as a negative one. Tell the person that you don't like the way that they are treating your child and they have no right to do that. I'm really bad at dealing with situations like this. Personally, I always type up personal notes. I make them look very professional so that they don't look childish. That way I can get what I am saying out without their interruption and without having to look at them in the face.
I hope this helped you out, at leasta little bit. Have a great day!
2006-07-23 10:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by twisteddistance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dad would be the perfect one to answer this question but, he's not here so I'll do my best. My siblings and I had trouble with bullies when we were growing up. Occasionally the parents of these little brats would also be harsh and brash with us. We were very respectful, quiet children and never spoke up. My dad finally had enough and went to each and everyone of their houses and put a stop to it himself. Police don't really care if your child is being bullied. It's not on their priority list. I am not a violent person but sometimes bullies need a little dose of their own medicine. My dad meant business when he visited their homes and after he did we weren't bullied any longer. I thank God for him doing that everyday. The parent that is bullying your child needs to be put in their place. If it takes threatening so be it. Just make sure their aren't any witnesses or charges could be pressed against you. If you are angry enough and mean what you say to them they'll know it and the problem should cease. Good luck and God Bless!
2006-07-24 00:37:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it in a school or sports setting? First email the parent and tell them in a nice way this is unacceptable. You will have a record of your complaint. Then if it persists go to the head of the organization or school and complain. If it's a social setting still send the email.
2006-07-23 13:12:24 · answer #4 · answered by Ricky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does the parent bully a child? Where does this happen? I need more info to answer.
2006-07-26 12:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by mlm1975 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is in the school setting I would go to the school board and inform them of that parent. IF they do not do anything, go to the police and get a restraining order out for your child. The police can and will get them and give it to the parent that is the problem.
2006-07-23 09:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Roberta D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had this prob a few times, having kids in sports. But I am very out spoken, only when it comes to my kids. I usually go straight to the source and tell the parent to NEVER talk to my child again only talk with me! I have had a prob with one coach tho. And I have been to the principal and the supervisor of the "bus barn" And the commissioners of our sports program. Just go to NE one who will listen. That is your KID. NO adult has NE right to push your kid (or any kid) around. This can severely hurt their self esteem and trust for adults
2006-07-23 10:05:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 tht parent face to face,firmly but nicely tell u know abt d bullying n u dun approve also,tell d parent tht if it cont. u will tell d spouse of bully n if nec. d law enfor.c
2006-07-23 10:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha Stephens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go straight to the person doing it & let them know I will not tolerate them bulling my child. If they continued to do it then there would be grave consiquenses to their actions.
2006-07-23 16:47:59 · answer #9 · answered by lissa15369 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the kid to a self defemse class.and call the bullies mother!
2006-07-23 12:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋