Is there any truely honest caring women in the world anymore? I am 22 years old and am tired of the games. Why do nice guys always finish last? Why do women prefer men who lie, cheat, and treat them like crap? Is there any good honest caring women who want the same in a man?
2006-07-23 02:18:34 · 15 answers · asked by jerrycarter1984 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i`m only 15 so i don know how you are gonna take this answer.in the world today so many men treat women like crap.a male friend of mine told me that women are now so used to that kinda life that its now like an addiction.i for one have dated a few guys who have treated me like crap that is y i do not feel like ever dating ever again.tho i can make an exception if i could ever find a guy like you.so pliz do not think that every lady is like that sum of us are not and we hate being treated like crap but when we meet the guys at first they act so sweet and loving and you fall for them only to later on find out that they are players but by then you might hev fallen so deep in love you just can`t let go
2006-07-23 02:28:02 · answer #1 · answered by kukuvagsgangsta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are more good women out there looking for mr. niceguy, than are men looking for the same in a woman. why? because most women get stuck with the cheaters, the liars and those that treat them like crap and it's not by choice. These guys started out as nice, but ended up showing their true colors. Nobody wants someone like that. If they do, they have serious issues. There are a lot of nice single women, still out there. You maybe looking for love in all the wrong places or are attracted to women that don't show you the same respect. I know a lot of nice guys, that come out on top and I know some that are shy and a sucker for a pretty face & get hurt everytime. Maybe you need to evaluate yourself. Everyone needs to do some soul searching at some point. Assess why this is happening to you and then empower yourself and make a change. Being nice is a great quality and Nice guys don't finish last, it's the way you feel about yourself that's negative.
2006-07-23 02:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by mangosmoothie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women are nice, there are just a few rules for dating, follow them while being a nice guy and you will have it all....
1. People want what they cant have
2. people want a challenge
3. people want someone that can listen to them and show they care...just can't say it.
4. A confident man is very sexy.
5. Persistance pays off.
I recommend Love Tactics by Thomas McKnight, there is also a website.
It isn't about games, it is human nature.
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2006-07-23 02:47:37 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyedgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am and I do! I have the same problem. Can't find a nice man. I get all the guys who lie, cheat, and treat me like crap, and I hate it! I am sick of it, and I am alone right now.
2006-07-23 02:22:17 · answer #4 · answered by Author Al 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there are! A lot of people in your age group are still immature. Also women think, "I can change this man to be the way I want him to be". If he's a stinker to begin with, she is not going to change him but she is immature and doesn't know that yet.
2006-07-23 02:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to match.com or one of the other places and Treat yourself!
State your case in your profile.
Lots of gals, quality gals, are out there looking for
a what you see is what you get kind of guy--describe yourself
and see how many are just within 10 miles of where you live!!
Good Luck!
Hold out for a Good one for you!
2006-07-23 02:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by susieque 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel young women today have no self-respect there for they get no respect. You will attract what you will accept. At 22 you must continue with what is right and you will attract the "right one".
2006-07-23 02:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by ladybug.leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think the reason why we do fall for those kind of men is because at such a young age most women like a "temporary" boyfriend to love ...marriage is probably not in the mind but all you need to do is ind a mature women.. (in my opinion)
2006-07-23 02:24:52 · answer #8 · answered by becca . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, where do you find these ladies? Water seeks its own level. Perhaps you might consider places where you will find ladies with your values--they are out there... You might consider attending social groups, auxiliaries in church, college religious fraternities. Believe me when I say that there are ladies with your ideals out there just waiting to find a man with equal principles. Happy searching, take care and God bless.
2006-07-23 02:29:54 · answer #9 · answered by KonSengWon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just havent found the right one. relax dont pressure yourself. 22 is too young. you still have 43 years before you become a senior citizen. i'm about your age and havent found "the one too" but i'm not in a hurry. i take one day at a time.
2006-07-23 02:27:56 · answer #10 · answered by luvdoctor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋