we understand each other the problem is my parents say no jst coz he is not good looking we both r old enough to get married what should i do pls help me
2006-07-23 02:17:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This makes no sense. Are you for real? I can't imagine any parent taking a dislike to someone because of their looks! If this is true, then don't listen to them. You do what you think will make you happy - it's your life. Good looks don't guarantee a happy marriage...respect, friendship and love do.
2006-07-23 02:21:49 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First i'm very confident your parents are NOT saying NO coz' he's not good looking. There is something else behind the no. You haven't specified either of your ages so I am assuming you are atleast 25 years old. If you are any younger please listen to your parents. I tell you you must never regret what your parents do for you. Instead you must try being happy with it. Believe me it takes a lot off your head & lets you look at your career.
If you are above 25 atleast (i'm not talking about the guy at all) then you need to weigh your responsibilities towards your parents, youur social responsibilities, THEIR social status (mind you what you have until now is what THEY have given you).
If all the logic seems right & still your parents are resisting then wait for them. They'll come around.
All the best. Don't jump the gun.
Thanks & Regards
Vinod
2006-07-23 09:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Capndon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're joking, right? You're going to give such a shallow, uncharitable objection any consideration at all?
I question if you really are "old enough to get married" if you can not put your own desires for your own life above your parent's ridiculousness. What are they worried about? Ugly grandchildren? Genetics don't work that way. I realize you are writing from some country where parents are to be shown respect no matter what but I still say tell them to grow up!
2006-07-23 09:30:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being good looking for your future man can never, ever gauranty a good and faithful marriage. If you both are in true love, you can both make it. Just try to show that you really love the guy and your parents will notice that ;)
Good luck
2006-07-23 09:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by His Name is Majid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your both of age to marry, do it your parents will come around eventually, your the one that has to look at him all the time, so even if he's not good looking who cares but you.
2006-07-23 09:25:04 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not go by your parents rules for the rest of your life. If You are old enough to take care of your own self and pay all your own bills then go for it
2006-07-23 09:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by HastyBabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love lasts, it isn't necessary to get married right a way. Love lasts, and respect for his family will fade as he becomes more self aware.
Time is long for most of us
2006-07-23 09:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your old enough to get married why are you still listening to your parents just get married and then one day arrive at their house and tell them the great news if they dont like it disown your over controlling parents its not like they are going to sleep with this guy is it
2006-07-23 09:41:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems strange that your parents wouldn't like him just because he isn't good looking, there must be another reason that they don't want to tell you for some reason. If they don't have another reason then why does it matter what they think of him.
2006-07-23 09:24:26 · answer #9 · answered by Denise C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's going to be your life! if you love this guy...i'm sorry the parents should be happy you found someone you truly love and care for that loves you back and not shallow because of looks....their opinion and your opinion DO NOT have to be the same.......dont be with someone because of looks..be with someone because that's what your heart tells you. It's your life..they brought you into this world..your the one who has control over it.
2006-07-23 09:22:56 · answer #10 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋