I went to a wedding and saw an old friend that I graduated with two months ago. We hit it off from the get go, sat across from each other at dinner, and had several conversations alone after dinner. I asked for her number and told her I'd call her. I thought we were friends, but I get the feeling she thought more because she kept reinvigorating the conversation and standing right next to me half the night. Am I right or wrong here?
2006-07-23 02:05:45 · 20 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you seen Wedding Crashers yet? Weddings are aphrodisiacs for single women. You dropped the ball at the wedding, pick up the phone before it's too late. She was definitely interested at the wedding but 2 months is a long time to wait for a follow up call. It may be too late at this point.
2006-07-23 02:10:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lubers25 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you made a wrong impression or she interpreted whatever you said in that conversation as something more than friend. Maybe she felt secure in your company at that moment and just felt the need to be clingy. Call her but if you decide to go out, make it with "friends" and not like a date. Just make sure you emphasize that you just want to be friends and don't want to complicate matters by dating seriously for now.
2006-07-23 09:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by aprilc232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only calling her is going to let you know that. she may have been excited. she may have just really missed the old days and you brought that sense of feeling back. she may have always wanted to get with you, but never seen an opportunity before as it was always busy with school etc. now its more relaxed atmosphere, she can persue what she wanted. but none of this means anything unless you call her. if your interested then go for it. if you just want to know but aren't interested. talk to her. tell her you like her, but only as a friend. and are concerned cause you got the feeling she may have been interested in something more serious. be honest up front. let her know from the get go where your at. even if your interested. tell her that too. i like you and want to know if you would consider going on a date with me. very gentlemanly, honest, no games question. all up front. then take it from there
2006-07-23 09:10:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jody SweetG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she was in a way hitting on you or maybe just really, happy to see you. Oh and your in the right here.
2006-07-23 09:09:52 · answer #4 · answered by chelsea k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She LIKES you. Sounds like you have chemisty and she's feeling you. Don't lead her on..sounds like you don't want her like that. She found comfort, familiarity and appeal in you. And at a wedding, oh my! Girls are thinking of one thing and one thing only: their big day, whether they want to or not. So, take it for what it is: she likes you. Proceed with honesty.
2006-07-23 09:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, or maybe you were the only person she knew. That and weddings have a strange effect on women
2006-07-23 09:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weddings do that to people..(see the wedding crasher)...
she either didn't know anyone else there..or interested in you......
depends on what do you want? friends or are you interested. when you asked for her number and you'd call her..that showed interest.
2006-07-23 09:09:57 · answer #7 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she might have more on her mind than just friendship.
2006-07-23 09:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you were onto a sure thing, unless she didn't know anyone else there!
2006-07-23 09:09:13 · answer #9 · answered by heather b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only one way to find out, ask.
2006-07-23 09:07:49 · answer #10 · answered by Apple Blossom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋