I want to ask out one of my best friends who has just gotten off a relation ship where one of my friends (her boyfriend )was cheating on her. Should i wait to ask her out? And how should i do it, mind you she is my best friend.
2006-07-23 01:55:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would love for my significant other to be my best friend and think that the best relationships are when a husband and wife are eachothers best friends. Friends aren't always what they are cracked up to be and unfortunatley my grandpa has ended up being right, he always warned me about friends telling me the stories of his painful experiences with "friends" not wanting me to endure the pain as he did. My grandfather was nice to everyone and liked by everyone but he and my grandma never got to close to any one, he and my grandmother were best friends. It sure makes since to me know at 32 because having a vested interest in someone or something seems almost a nessisity for some people to really care. As parteners or husband and wife both end up being affected by the others positive or negitive so it seems only natural to encourage good things since your life is in jeperardy, the natural self protection instinct things!!!!
CHEMISTRY............you and your best friend, I assume of the opposite sex must have chemistry. It sounds like you two are just friends but I think you should feel that you two have some sort of "chemistry". I realize that she was you friends girlfriend so intamacy wasn't an option although you must have been attracted to her yhe big question is......Is she attracted to you? To avoid pain I would advise making dare sure you feel a mutual chemisry between you too before setting yourself up for rejection. Listen to your instincts and be honest......she may be vunerable after her last relationship and jump into a comfortable new one to avoid her pain. I'm sure as best friends you love eachother and enjoy similar activities so to me the only thing and I feel just as important is a definate strong chemistry and attraction for eachother to make a great thing!
Thats my unprofessional advise! Good Luck, Kati
2006-07-23 02:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by kati 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Definitely wait. Otherwise she'll probably just be on the rebound. Don't ruin your relationshop with her by trying to jump into a dating relationship. Just be there for her and have fun and if it was meant to be then it will be.
2006-07-23 08:58:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best friendship is between best friends, but give her a little time ti find herself again.
2006-07-23 09:02:17 · answer #3 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No give her time to recover from her other relationship first do you know if she likes u in that way?
2006-07-23 08:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked my best friend out and he said yes. yeah, i would ask her out for coffee or something to talk and then ask her out again and again.
2006-07-23 08:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by boyluvr26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep her as a friend and you'll both be happier
2006-07-23 08:58:42 · answer #6 · answered by NorthFLgurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋