i like this guy on my swim team. He is SUPER cute. he is a year older than me. I flirt with him during practice, i think that he flirts with me. We have one last competetion on monday and tuesday, then a banquet on Wednesday. i want to keep in touch with him. What should i do?
i should probably add that i am shy
2006-07-23 01:28:37 · 14 answers · asked by cool.cruiser820 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am not allowed to date...i am, however allowed to email him...
2006-07-23 09:08:11 · update #1
and my friends that are on my swim team...i have told them that i like him, but i am not sure if they remember or not...
2006-07-23 09:09:15 · update #2
just ask him if u can keep in contact with him , and take it from there
2006-07-23 01:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by NorthFLgurl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should just go for it and walk up to him and tell him you like him and would like to go out on a date. It will be a hard thing to do being that you are shy but if you don't you will always regret not doing it. If you are too shy to do this have a friend do it for you.
2006-07-23 08:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take a deep breath. Give him your number and ask him to keep in touch. Or ask if he has a myspace page. Get his info and add him to yours and stay in touch that way.
If you go ahead and do it, you will feel better later that way. Don't get anyone else to do it. Regardless of the outcome, you will live.
2006-07-23 08:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by pretty_brown_eyes 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have several options here
1- get over being shy for a moment and ask him to trade contact info so you two can keep in touch
2- have someone else do so for you
3- hope he asks you
2006-07-23 08:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by vicolstravnos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r shy and flirt with him all the times? During flirt ask him to invite u for a drink
2006-07-23 08:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another lost soul trying to find a way out?
Let's say this one is still hopeful
Praying hard for some quick salvation
Easy as an answer from a perfect stranger?
Reasonable as it might be?
All right, now YOU KNOW the answer..
2006-07-23 08:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by Roland 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
During the banquet, give him the most beautiful farewell post card with your phone number and address and ask him for his phone and address, if by that time he has not given you this info and asked yours.
2006-07-23 08:35:35 · answer #7 · answered by umbralatin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to make him realize that you feel shy at him this will turn his attention towards you.Becoz men become pleased very much when they realize that a girl feels shy at him.
2006-07-23 08:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by DeadPool 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Screw your courage to the sticking point" and tell him you'd like to keep in touch and ask for his email address and give him yours. The rest of the quote (from Shakespeare) is "and we'll not fail."
2006-07-23 08:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy people finish last.. just hold you nose and jump in the cold water. ask him out
2006-07-23 08:33:26 · answer #10 · answered by pbatmanq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple solution for the shy girl
tell ur friend to tell him how u feel and tell her to tell him that u to shy to ask him and if he likes u he will ask u out him self
cheers
2006-07-23 08:57:15 · answer #11 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋