we are brothers, we have a strong bond. we have lived together for years and have done alot of things 2gether. We have grown up 2gether and are ready to move out on solo.
there is something wrong I think. we have stored lots of songs on our main pc, when he was moving out to settle on his own, he burnt all the songs onto cds for his use and deleted all that he has recorded from cd's onto the pc.
he barely contact and when I try to contact him he refuses to take.
this is not rational, but I still keep up hope as there ain't anything done wrong by any of us to offend the other, or so I think.
He didn't inform me he was moving. He left with his copy of the house keys.
for this I need to know.
what do you think he is thinking.
Ps.
a comment he made before leaving was, " I am moving on up, so you too must follow"
PS, I have aided him on many occasions but I never once ask for any favour- when he offer in pity things, I appreciate.
tell me what does he think. What is he implyin
2006-07-23 00:24:43 · 11 answers · asked by Bif 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
l think you should move on without him if he decides he wants to keep in touch well just welcome him with open hands, good luck
2006-07-23 00:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all have to move on in life but he shouyldnt have left on those terms. and why he deleted ur songs on pc? did he think u dint want em or he do it to upset u? why would he do that? u dint steal his girlfriend did u? sorry, it must be upsetting but hey, we grow older not younger and we all have to make the decision of moving out. bet it wont seem too bad til u get used to it but why he left like he did is a mystery. prob he wernt thinking right at the time and why he dont answer ur calls is a mystery too. he'll start missing u sooner or later and call once he's settled. u wait and see. if you two had such a great bro bond, he wudnt hurt u. just wait a lil and see what happens. has he moved in with a girlfriend or something? probably he's having too much fun having his freedom and a place of his own. he'll soon come down to earth coz the feeing dont last forever.be happy for him and soon you will feel ready to move out too.take it easy and dont be too harsh on yourself. some ppl can adapt to change but others find it hard, it'll soon feel ok.
2006-07-23 07:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by allgiggles1984 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not going to like this (not a lot) but when I read your pathetic question, I was screaming inside!!
What sort of a wimp are you?
What is he implying??
What have I done wrong? etc etc.
He is your brother, you are entitled to get him by his throat and dont let go until he spells it out, we cant tell you what the problem is (if there really is a problem) He can tell you, and if its worrying you this much SPEAK to him!
I'm still having a little inward scream here so I'm going to leave it at that before I start typing in more capitals!
2006-07-27 03:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by budding author 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello friend. I could maybe offer some insight if you had said which country you live in. You don't sound like a native English speaker and there are many cultural and sociological differences throughout the world. If you could say where you live, you may get some helpful answers. Having said this......families throughout the world are strange. You can't choose your family. You have to love your family and accept their silly ways. Best wishes.....
2006-07-23 07:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by lou b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep doing what you feel is right. Don't close any doors. Family is family. Are you living alone now, or with other family? If so, maybe they have a clue. There is a book you might be interested in. The name of it is, FAMILIES: THE TIES THAT BIND - AND GAG.
Good luck, stay cool. I hope things work out.
2006-07-23 07:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by Delora Gloria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's ready to face the world alone an wants u to do the same, he's makin a clean break away from you to make it easyer on him!
Give him time an he'll be back in your life soon enough when he realises he misses u, Dont worry dude, it'll all work out when he gets his mind together
2006-07-23 07:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by paddymac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems to imply that you are not progressing and are pulling him down. he probably wants to go out in the world and you seem to be too cautious. why dont you let him see what he wants to find, he will come back of that i am sure because he knows that whatever happens you are always there for him. if you think you are okay as you are dont try to overdo yourself, you might be unable to undo what you end up doing.
2006-07-23 07:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by wills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has com to our attention that you have done something to upset him. He obviously thinks that you are not good enough for him now and is moving on to better things. What is forgtting is that blood is thicker than water. And that it is always your family you have to fall back on when things go wrong
2006-07-23 07:31:40 · answer #8 · answered by finnykid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE THINKS THAT YOU CANNOT SURVIVE ON YOUR, OWN HE FELT MORE LIKE A PARENT OR GUARDIAN THAN A BROTHER.
HE IS NOW TRYING TO MOVE ON & BE AN ADULT AND THINKS YOU WILL BRING HIM DOWN.
YOU NEED TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE WITHOUT HIM THEN ONCE HE SEES YOU ARE COPING & ENJOYING LIFE WITHOUT HIM HE WONT FEEL UNDER SO MUCH PRESSURE & WILL WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU ONCE AGAIN
2006-07-23 07:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
it seems like to me that he needs to move on, burning your c'ds was childish, he isn't depressed or anything is he because we do things that are not rational when we are depressed, i know i have suffered it most of my life hope this helps
2006-07-23 07:39:08 · answer #10 · answered by margaret_jones2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still trying to figure out what YOU'RE implying...
Try learning proper English and get back to me...
2006-07-24 00:57:31 · answer #11 · answered by junebug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋