should...I just think I am friendly!
2006-07-23 00:10:50 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend's behavior is quite normal being male,trying to dominate,I think you are lucky to have such boyfriend.Don't take otherwise.Enjoy his jealousy.
2006-07-23 00:16:47 · answer #1 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
coming from a man, if you really love this guy and want to be with him, then you should try and find a way to include him in your conversations especially if he's standing right next to you! also include him even if he's not there ... example ... a guy comes up to you and says ... hey, how are you, if you don't mind me saying so, but you have the most beautiful eyes i've ever saw! ... you could respond with ... well thank you, my boyfriend tells me that all the time, right honey? and turn to him and give him a kiss! he'll feel like a champ! this could work both ways. on the flip side ... i tend to believe .;; and this is not true for all cases ... but when im with a women who's insecure, the first thing that comes to mind is that if she's thinking i'm flirting or wanting to be with someone else, then she's thinking the same thing. how i know this? because i at one time was very insecure. why? becuase i had thoughts of fouling around with others and one relates best to ones own thoughts feelings and action.
2006-07-23 08:03:20 · answer #2 · answered by hwisland808 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure and think that he will lose you to another guy. This problem may never go away, or it may as he matures. If you have never given him a reason to be jealous then there is probably nothing you can do to change the situation, maybe you should find a less insecure boyfriend.
2006-07-23 07:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell the other guys you're being "friendly" with to stop chatting with you. I don't think you're doing the right thing. You should be loyal to your boyfriend, instead of flirting with other guys. Think about your feelings if you saw your boyfriend hanging out with girls. You definitely would feel mad. I think so.
2006-07-23 07:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its just hi and bye thats ok.if its flirting with them then we got a problem. all guys are jealous including me and i play it off but inside we all are.so yes he trust u but some guys just dont like thier chick talking to other dude. i think if u really like this guy ur with then maybe u should try put more time aside for him. so he knows hes special and those guys are nothing. well he should take charge to and grab ur hand when in public so people know ur his girl. as for talking on phone i dont like that. why should a girl call another guy on phone when they can call thier man. so yeah becareful make sure he knows u like him and those others guys are nothing.u just might lose him one day.so good luck
2006-07-23 07:20:47 · answer #5 · answered by SLICK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you the brutal truth. If you're a pretty girl, EVERY guy who has ever done something nice for you since the time you were 14 wanted to fvck you. Your boyfriend knows this--now, just use good judgment. Nuf said.
2006-07-23 07:12:58 · answer #6 · answered by brian_hahn_32 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u're correct , but to make him understand it , here's what you ought to do:
Ask him out to a candle-light dinner,
tell him that it's time he understood why HE was the one with you and not one of your many friends . Hold his hands , look straight into his eyes and tell him how much you love him .
Tell him how good he looked and what set him apart from the others that made you go for him .
You could even make something up , say , like , " '-name-' , god made a few imperfect boys , on the rest , he put ur name ." .
That ought to cheer him up.
Any more problems , contact me (nickname : Viktorkrum)
2006-07-23 07:17:13 · answer #7 · answered by viktorkrum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is right and u the same each one of us have his relations and maybe some near person will be worry about our relation so u must try to reassure him that he is the best and lonely in the heart but the other is a normal and public realtions with the other.
tell me what will happen?
2006-07-23 07:15:24 · answer #8 · answered by someone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i was dating a guy that gets mad when someone ims me over the computer, and i think that is crazy.. tell him he can trust you and if he cannot then you do not need him.. a relationship needs trust in it one thing for sure..take time and show him he is special to you and the others are just friends...
2006-07-23 07:15:40 · answer #9 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you ignore him when you speak to these other guys or speak inappropriately with them . then he is right to say something to you. if he is just the jealous type he needs to become more secure in himself so he wont feel threatened by other men talking to you
2006-07-23 07:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by felix r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋