i see other sisters hug they're older brother but mine just tells me to fcuk off...i dont mind but why is he so horribl about it?
2006-07-22 23:52:51 · 21 answers · asked by ♥āngelic♥děmon♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's not being horrible he's just not a cuddly person, it most likely makes him feel uncomfortable and he doesn't think it makes him look like a man.
Just stop trying to cuddle him all the time just cos you want cuddles doesn't mean he has to, if you want cuddles that much go cuddle your mum or dad leave your brother alone he obviously don't like it.
2006-07-22 23:59:31 · answer #1 · answered by madamspud169 5 · 13⤊ 4⤋
It could be that he is a littler uncomfortable or shy but the use of language is rude on his part and i can't understand why he is not touchy feely like u as he has grown up with u together....so just explore more by giving him hugs with some sense...say if he achieves something so he wud feel great and proud...best of luck...
2006-07-23 08:32:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was never comfortable hugging my sister i'm not a touchy feely kind of person, but as i'm a lot older now when i see my sister i always give her a hug. maybe it's a youth thing, but as for the bad language i can only assume he's not really mature.
2006-07-23 07:28:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably thinks he is too mature for hugging his little sister. But he loves you, that's for sure. So when you are alone with him, go and give him a hug. I bet he will like that, no matter how he reacts. And maybe next time he will hug you first...Good luck!
2006-07-23 06:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by me-sama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's quite funny though! They probably hugged they're older brother out of affection. It sounds like your hug is mimicry. He is put off by your gesture because you aren't genuinely motivated to hug him.
2006-07-23 07:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by syelark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not know... unless you are around him alot then i guess he may feel funny hugging you.. i know when you have not seen your brother in a while i think you are both ready for a hug... least my brother is...and i know i am.. my brother and i use to be rivals as children but do better now that he does not live around here all the time.. he use to make me so mad cause he is a habitual liar.. and i never did understand why he did that.. but it takes all kinds...
2006-07-23 06:59:28 · answer #6 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first he just feels awkward being hugged because he (or may think) he is already a big man, end, he might just not wantb to because your a woman with a body and dont get me wrong he just thinks its not ok for him to be hugging you. Try a peck on his cheeks only when u want to express your love to him that just might be enough:)
2006-07-23 07:05:15 · answer #7 · answered by tshingk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My younger brother was HORRIBLE to me when I was growing up. I don't know why, but it won't help to compare yourself to other famillies, it will just stress you out more.
Maybe you could try telling him that it upsets you, but be prepared for more of the same things he normally does.
I'm sure he loves you really, but some people just can't cope with their feelings.
2006-07-23 07:02:46 · answer #8 · answered by guest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i have 2 kids a boy and a girl they don't hug each other but i am sure they do really get along well with each-other. it isn't bad that you don't hug, some families don't do much of it
2006-07-23 07:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by greeny12004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u don't give him enough privacy, give him some time alone then he'll come and hug you one day coz he'll realise that he needs u ... but i just wanna tell u that if he tells u to **** off, that doesn't mean he hates u, i'm sure he doesn't mean it ... as i told u , he just needs time alone maybe.
and try to talk to him about it, let him know how u feel ... good luck!
2006-07-23 06:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by >DraMa Qu33N< 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to fcuk off back
2006-07-23 06:57:06 · answer #11 · answered by Kelly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋