No matter how old we get we will always remain sensitive to the negative comments our parents make about our choices, habits and so on. How do you cheer yourself up after such an episode?
2006-07-22 23:52:01 · 10 answers · asked by Laura Palmer 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It's her job to guide you in the right direction. Instead of feeling bad about her role in your life try to consider it as helpful hints. You don't have to do what she wants every time but you should consider her comments as if she was your conscience. It's not a good idea to assume that you are always right. Keep an open mind and your relationship with your mom will improve. Her input is important even if you sometimes don't like it.
2006-07-23 00:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 19:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be grateful that your mother is sharing her opinions with you. After all, isn't it much better to know her distaste about something rather than her keeping secrets from you? If she keeps her negative opinions to herself, and you keep provoking her anger with things she doesn't like, how long do you think it will be before she cracks and throws a fit directed at some poor, innocent dolt who happens to be in the wrong place at the wrong time?
2006-07-23 00:36:54 · answer #3 · answered by bOoGaLoOs!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it is hard to realise, but she probably makes those comments because she loves you. Otherwise, she may not bother. She does not realise that she may hurt you -she is busy with stuff etc-, -she cares so much about you, she wants things different for you, or whatever.
Maybe you want to tell her (nicely if you can, then y o u teach her!): "mum, what you just said is not very nice /makes me feel this or that. I know you did not mean it, but it is tough for me". You get the idea.
Parents always want the best for their children, but being human, they don't always act the best they could. We all need to learn.
So if you know that, and you just take it for what it is and decide if you want to take her advice or not, then you''ll be ok.
Helpful?
2006-07-23 00:32:54 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember, they are only human, they too once made mistakes...
Next time your mother points something out & trys to make you feel bad about it. Point out that she made mistakes in her past & that she should allow you to make your own mistakes.
Don't allow this to overcome you, I have seen many mother/daughter relationships end due to past feelings that were never resolved.
2006-07-23 00:02:11 · answer #5 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mothers are always wellwishers,you should forget the episodes.
2006-07-23 00:00:17 · answer #6 · answered by sukhwinder b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can talk to me and I will help you cheer yourself up.
2006-07-24 02:30:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend there money.
2006-07-22 23:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that is is your life an not theres
2006-07-22 23:55:26 · answer #9 · answered by sicivic05 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think abt my dream boy.
2006-07-22 23:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by kuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋