I'm a girl & i'm in love with a guy who's 6 years older than me..!?
I wonder if this love can last for a long time in your opinion?
& does it sounds fair enough to be in love with him??
2006-07-22 23:33:59 · 18 answers · asked by Mrs.DAVID 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it has nothing to do whether it's fair or not..if he loves u too and u try..why not? but how old r u? it makes the difference whether u r 17 or 25..
2006-07-22 23:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by pussura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Your age is crucial to answering this question.
If you are say ... 30 ... and the guy is 36 - then no problem.
But this isn't the case, is it? You are probably under 18. The further you go below 18, the more ill-advised this becomes.
Are you 16? 15? 13?
At this age, you shouldn't be thinking of something that "can last", because you simply have no real idea of what that means. In addition, someday (it might take you to be in your twenties), you will know that it is wierd and very suspicious for a 21 year old guy to be hanging around with a 15 year old girl. When that someday comes around, you'll say to yourself "what was I doing with this wierdo?"
Finally, you are damaging yourself for further relationships with guys your own age ...
Not good ... not good at all.
2006-07-23 06:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow a whole 6 years huh? What are you gonna do when he is 70 and you are a young 64? Man how will you two get along with this huge generation gap at that age? Abandon all hope now and go for a guy your own age.
2006-07-23 07:00:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if anyone can answer that its me ive been with my partner for 10 years he was 6 years older than me and its been true love ever since weve been having how ups and downs recently and its got a lot worse but its been good over 10 years time so good luck and all the best
2006-07-23 06:39:27 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this relation might work, but it all depends how old are you. If you are over 18, then it's no problem. But if you are 15, for example, a 21 years old guy may be too mature for you...But you never know until you try. So goood luck!
2006-07-23 06:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by me-sama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very much fair love has no boundaries and there is no age bar but until and unless you are sure about your love just hold on your feelings
2006-07-23 06:39:11 · answer #6 · answered by Priyama C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let's say you're 15 and the guy is 21 it looks a bit weird since you would be a minor. when you're 20 years old, and he's 26 and doesn't look so bad...
2006-07-23 06:39:09 · answer #7 · answered by soliloquise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? My dad is 7 years older than my mom and everything is ok right now.In fact,mostly, older guy is more understanding.
2006-07-23 06:39:53 · answer #8 · answered by cassie d` mignon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... if it's really love, anything is possible.
i think, age is just a number, depending on the situation.
but girl, watch out for those scumbags, ive had my fair share. =\ not pleasant.
2006-07-23 06:38:03 · answer #9 · answered by lissax3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on your age...as you get older.eg 25..6 years (to 31) isnt a big difference....but if you are 16..the guy 22...different worlds...
2006-07-23 06:38:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋