theres a guy in my colony he keeps staring at me all the time n try to attract me at him by doin acts n passing smile n even i have started liking him so should i pass smile or do sumthing to tell him that even i like him
none of us have ever talked with eachother but i am sure that we both r in love.
2006-07-22 22:10:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldnt go as far as to say youre in love.. but similing back will encourage him to make the first move :)
2006-07-22 22:12:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should hav got his signals right!
wen a SHY Indian guy keeps staring a gal u should understand he definately likes u n may b luvs u as wel.........
but u should talk by starting with somthin like home work help or somthin like abt ur or his bro/sis .............instead of xchangin smiles u just cal him or go to him if it doesnt hurt ur ego n just plainly talk to him NOT abt luv but plain talk.......then keep the interaction goin on n 1 day wen u r quite sure just ask the Q.......
just go ahead!
2006-07-23 05:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by eagleshounak_17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a precious gift, which we receive from Jesus. Pure and holy affection is not a feeling, but a principle. Those who are actuated by true love are neither unreasonable nor blind.
There is but little real, genuine, devoted, pure love. This precious article is very rare. Passion is termed love.
True love is a high and holy principle, altogether different in character from that love which is awakened by impulse, and which suddenly dies when severely tested.
Love is a plant of heavenly growth, and it must be fostered and nourished. Affectionate hearts, truthful, loving words, will make happy families and exert an elevating influence upon all who come within the sphere of their influence.
Love . . . is not unreasonable; it is not blind. It is pure and holy. But the passion of the natural heart is another thing altogether. While pure love will take God into all its plans, and will be in perfect harmony with the Spirit of God, passion will be headstrong, rash, unreasonable, defiant of all restraint, and will make the object of its choice an idol. In all the deportment of one who possesses true love, the grace of God will be shown. Modesty, simplicity, sincerity, morality, and religion will characterize every step toward an alliance in marriage. Those who are thus controlled will not be absorbed in each other's society, at a loss of interest in the prayer meeting and the religious service. Their fervour for the truth will not die on account of the neglect of the opportunities and privileges that God has graciously given to them.
That love which has no better foundation than mere sensual gratification will be headstrong, blind, and uncontrollable. Honour, truth, and every noble, elevated power of the mind are brought under the slavery of passions. The man who is bound in the chains of this infatuation is too often deaf to the voice of reason and conscience; neither argument nor entreaty can lead him to see the folly of his course.
True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. On the contrary, it is calm and deep in its nature. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding.
Love, lifted out of the realm of passion and impulse, becomes spiritualised, and is revealed in words and acts. A Christian must have a sanctified tenderness and love in which there is no impatience of fretfulness; the rude, harsh manners must be softened by the grace of Christ.
Counsel to a Romantic, Lovesick Girl. --You have fallen into the sad error which is so prevalent in this degenerate age, especially with women. You are too fond of the other sex. You love their society; your attention to them is flattering, and you encourage, or permit, a familiarity which does not always accord with the exhortation of the apostle, to "abstain from all appearance of evil." . . .
Turn your mind away from romantic projects. You mingle with your religion a romantic, lovesick sentimentalism, which does not elevate, but only lowers. It is not yourself alone who is affected; others are injured by your example and influence. . . . Daydreaming and romantic castle building have unfitted you for usefulness. You have lived in an imaginary world; you have been an imaginary martyr and an imaginary Christian.
There is much of this low sentimentalism mingled with the religious experience of the young in this age of the world. My sister, God requires you to be transformed. Elevate your affections, I implore you. Devote your mental and physical powers to the service of your Redeemer, who has bought you. Sanctify your thoughts and feelings that all your works may be wrought in God.
2006-07-23 05:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by Samini 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is a very strong word
i suggest that you go talk to this guy first and get to know him as a close friend first. Then if you think u like him after knowing him a lot ask him out on a date - and go on from there. thats what i would do!
2006-07-23 05:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by Sammie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well....i think u know that he trying to attract u by passing his smile....u also can do the same thing...pass ur smile....
it's the way 2 open ur relation with him.....if he like u..then he will carry on everything by himself...try it......
2006-07-23 05:28:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not yet, but you are in a good road! Let him make the first move! (a real move) Do not wait too long! If he is stupid move on!
2006-07-23 05:15:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jerdy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love. It's lust. You should talk to him. He's obviously too shy. Make the first move if he won't.
2006-07-23 05:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to find out more abt this guy...i don't hink it is love it is attraction ,knw him better,i u think he is right one for u go for it
best of luck
2006-07-23 05:16:25 · answer #8 · answered by ali h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, love does'nt wait .
2006-07-23 05:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HOW COULD U BE IN LOVE WITH SOMEONE U NEVER IF HELD A CONVERSATION WITH...
2006-07-23 05:15:02 · answer #10 · answered by strawberry2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋