i have a boyfriend at present and i really love him.our relationship is on the rocks right now but i dont want to lose him,at this very moment my feelings are i will do everything for him even though i felt that he is already ignoring me and sometimes hit me.i dont know if you guys out there felt this kind of love before.he is not brad pitt nor a very handsome guy but i love him so much.sometimes hearts are fool and blind.
2006-07-22 21:54:53 · 7 answers · asked by jac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey listen u first thing first..
love is all abt understandin no beggin is required..
looks like there is serious prob with u two ...
first ask him to meet u & talk to him directly..
ask him is he hurt by u ..nythin tat is botherin him..
ask him to u ans u frenkly & directly..
if love is true it will last for ever..
u got to be strong in order to make ur relationship strong & longlastin
true love is rare
everyone is not fortunate enough to get it..
if ur love is tru u will definately get posoitive response ..
god bless u 2
2006-07-22 22:12:49 · answer #1 · answered by PiYuSh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you can do is protecting yourself. I dont think anyone in this world was born to be hit or ignored by another and be happy to this. You love him but do he love you like that ? dont think that " I can do everything for him". That's so silly. Why do you love him ? you dont tell, so I dont know. Of course, sometimes, a girl love a boy just because he is handsome. You told not, I believe you but why do you love him ?
You also told that sometimes, hearts are fool and blind that means you also know your problem but you are trying to hide it.
Think clearly about your reason to love him and your problems with him, then choose the best way for your heart.
I must repeat here, noone is allowed to hit you or treat you poorly.
2006-07-23 05:06:57 · answer #2 · answered by Tiá»?u Du 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: If he hits you, find a man that really loves you.
This guy is an abuser and a user. If you really want to help him then file a police report on his history of violence so he can be placed in a correctional program to help him deal with whatever problems are causing his abusive nature.
2006-07-23 05:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tomis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hearts are fool and blind for sure. You should be wary of a boyfriend who hits you - this is a bad sign.
2006-07-23 04:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by ElderStud 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that physically abusive relationship immediately. Demand respect from your next man.
2006-07-23 06:16:34 · answer #5 · answered by chdoctor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No only desperate people beg for love. You are better than that. keep a movin.
2006-07-23 04:58:17 · answer #6 · answered by Lacey!Loo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he hit you...leave him....no one should treat you so poorly
2006-07-23 04:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by jimoelfke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋