I am trying homeopathy for my state of mind at the moment . Every thing has fallen apart since my seperation from the man I have known and been with 44 years , since we were 10 ! not eating , cann't get him out of my mind . Life going nowhere . Time ,I am told will heal but at what cost ! Job uncertain and where I live . So , so lonely
2006-07-22 20:27:34 · 9 answers · asked by solitaire 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Join a church and spend your time serving the Lord. Find people that are spiritually sensitive to pray for you and be friends with. Stop living in the past believe right now that the Lord will save you and comfort you. Stop living for the pleasures of this world but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. The Lord will renew your spirit. All you have to do is believe in Him.
Jesus came so that you can enjoy your life while doing the Lord's will.
"I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly." John 10:10
He is the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. Don't let your ex have rule over your life!!
The person before me is right, anti-depressants will not do for you what you don't want to do. You can have a good life if you let go of the past. Don't wallow in self-pity. Be thankful for breath. Be thankful for the many blessings that you do have. The Bible says that As a man speaketh, so is he. If you keep thinking that you can't go on or that your life won't be any good without this guy, then that will be what happens! Speak positivity and blessings. You can only take one day at a time.
2006-07-22 20:44:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I am so sorry to hear what you are going through! these times are hard for everyone. But that makes life what it is! there are ups and there are downs, I am sure a brighter day is just around the corner! Ido not think you shoukd take anti depressants. they are bad for your health (well most of them are anyway). there are other things you could do that might not take your mind completely off the man you love and the things you are going through but they could help. Go out with friends, even igf its just for a coffee or just for a walk, if you have a pet spend time with it, get a make over, maybe you don't feel like getting a into a reltionship anytime soon so I suggest for you to hang out with your friends and family (if they are anywhere near you) Good Luck and God Bless you!
2006-07-23 03:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by miami09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I understand it, you are 54, and had been with your hubby since 10 years old.
Wow.
That, in itself, is unusual in ur society.
My first suggestion is to look at your present life. What hobbies do you have, charity groups you are with, or present goals you are seeking.Change your focus...
Bottom Line: though unexpected, you are now on your own. Two choices: curl up and give up; or kick some *** and be the you that you were born to be.
Me, I'd rise up, dust off, and kick ***. Make use of resources from the marriage, such as children. It is for a reason, find out what it is!
2006-07-23 03:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by ?seeker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would defiantly talk to my doctor.
don't wait until it is totally out of control. There are good medications out there that can really help but it usually take 4 to 6 week before you get the full effect of the medication.
The sooner you go the better. Good Luck :)
2006-07-23 20:31:59 · answer #4 · answered by paulamcneil1223 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, I'd say you have a very good shot a being depressed. You need to find a therapist to work with, they will evaluate your symptoms and help you find a solution -- counseling, medications, etc. Time does heal your pain, but sometimes you need to manage the pain to give yourself the time to heal. Good luck!
2006-07-23 03:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by kc_warpaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may want to seek counseling or talk to someone you trust about this. You might need medication or simple support through this difficult time in your life. I hope things get better for you soon, as they will eventually. This, too, shall pass. Good luck.
PS
You especially want to seek counseling if you're feeling suicidal. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
2006-07-23 03:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can understand dear...though its easier said than done, you have to be mentally strong. Things will fall in place, there are always ups and downs in this life. Again, be strong and have faith that your situation will improve...talk to someone about this, I am sure there will be a way. When life gives you a lemon, make it into a lemonade...good luck dear!
2006-07-23 03:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by Camellias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you are just sinking into a pit, and its your own doing, wake up and get going, nothing homeopathic will help, get drugged or get some emotional help from a group, church or anything, but dont just sit there and let this grip you or it will kill you. wake up and live , hes a louse. you are better than that.
2006-07-23 03:32:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go smoke a blunt r maybe more than one
2006-07-23 03:34:11 · answer #9 · answered by vetta b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋