procedures for ordering food?

Answer 1

1. pick up phone
2. call restaruant
3. answer all their questions
4. pay the man when he arrives.

Answer 2

Are you talking about in a restaurant??
If so, you simply review the menu, consider the entrees, and give the Waiter/Server your selection.
On a date, it is acceptable to allow either party to order for both, or if your a guest at a large table--the Host can order for each if asked.

Answer 3

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