The love of my life just gave up on us. I loved everything about her so much, and towards the end we had typical problems that all people go through (communication, ect) nothing major...it just needed work and she gave up on us. Everything we were and could have been is gone! Everything was so great in the begining, and now it's not. I just don't understand everything I'm feeling right now, please help me...I don't understand! How can I hate her so much, but at the same time love her so much...and miss her so much!
2006-07-22 20:01:37 · 10 answers · asked by blessedbe111 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's called ANGER....It is normal to feel this way. You are mad at her for leaving ...you are mad at her for giving up on you two...but of course that is on the surface. ...anger is in your mind..but the love for her is in your heart....if she wasnt willing to work it out and you were....forget her...I know its easier said than done....however, there are better looking...nicer...chics out there...like me for instance...hhaaaa ha
2006-07-22 20:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everyone so don't feel bad...now you need to stop concentrating on the bad stuff and think about the good times you guys had and how it's made you a better person....life experiences are the best and it took me two years to get over my first love of my life....but I woke up one morning and just cared for him but didn't love him anymore...I know I am a better person because of it and since we had a lot of problems I can now realized that it wouldn't have worked anyways....we we're too young and not ready for that serious of a relantionship....but I still love him for what I got from him, but I'm not in love with him....you needs to stop hating her and start appreciating yourself because now is the time to make yourself be great.....
2006-07-23 03:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by Cool Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to feel that way. Love and hate are very similar emotions that require a great deal of effort or energy to feel. My advice is to take some time out before trying to patch things up with her if that's even possible. Talk to one of your friends that may have gone through something similar, it always helps. You also need to keep yourself busy so you don't have a lot of idle time to dwell on things. In no time at all, it will get better.
2006-07-23 03:08:46 · answer #3 · answered by Enigma1000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you are really growing up. This is life pal, and life is not always gonna give you what you want. no matter how much you want it. Feel bad for you, i really do. It just wasn't meant to be. I mean if it was, she would of tried to work things out, talking things out, going to counselling. But she decided not to. And that's her loss, not yours. She lost in this not you. And there is the saying "there is a thin line between love and hate." I know you are hurting right now, but please realise that there are other women out there who would like to be with you. Go out make friends and date. You will get over her quickly as soon as you put yourself out there.
2006-07-23 03:11:35 · answer #4 · answered by ~confused~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's pretty sick, kid. I had a boyfriend that went like that. I loved him so much, but hated his guts. In fact, I wanted him really bad even after we had split, but every time my phone rang, I was hoping it was someone calling to say he had died in a horrible bloody accident. I didn't understand it either and I still don't, other than there is something wrong with me...but I found someone else and have forgotten about the other guy.
2006-07-23 03:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by kaliedoscope_eyes86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't love you as much as you loved her. So she just didn't wanna work it out. Be sure shes not into someone els. And eveything is always great in the beginning babe.... Wounds are fresh, it'll take time to get over her but you will eventually. And you will find someone who is way better and won't regret her having given up.
2006-07-23 03:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you can just show her that ya'll really can work through yalls problems and show her how much you love her love is a complicated thing i mean there are just times i want to give up on my relationship cause i just i hate him sometimes but at the same time i love him so much i couldnt imagine life without him its all just how love works its confusing its frustrating at times and weird but its beautiful and mind blowing all at the same time
2006-07-23 03:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dun hate her u just love her so much to admit u r mad at her and u r so sad for what happened!
u should understand that she can be the one for u but u cant help it if u r not the one for her it takes 2 ppl to agree on the relation if she didnt then u have to get over it its so sad to lose the one u love specially if u belive that they were the one and thy had every thing u want and even more but u have to get over it not cuz u want to but u have too thats what u should know i
i'm sorry!
2006-07-23 03:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sucks, huh? all I can tell you is we've all been there and mabey it just wasnt meant to be
2006-07-23 03:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by jts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its meant to be you two will work it out but if she was just playing games she wont want to try to work it out
2006-07-23 05:12:27 · answer #10 · answered by YODA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋