I'm 30 and met him during a tour last year. He's 9 yrs my senior and single. We could talk on the phone for hrs. Recently, I had sexual fantasies and even dreamt abt him. I thought our relationship is beyond friendship but he has yet asked or mentioned anything on being more than friends. How do I find out whether he's interested in me too? And how do I make him initiate it (wanting me to be his gf)?
2006-07-22 19:40:25 · 9 answers · asked by AL75 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hints has been dropped. Strange signals has been received. It's just that both never initiated. We've been to dinners and movies..
2006-07-22 19:48:45 · update #1
Just be patient, if he is your Mr.Right, he won't be running away :) Good luck !
2006-07-24 21:42:43 · answer #1 · answered by darkangelpat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you already went dating like movies and dinners as you claimed, I think you should talk direct to him about this relationship between yourself and him. Ask him at what level of this relationship, is it just friend or closer than that ? If, the answer "closer than that" move in for the attack. Like holding his hands when going out, add a bit of wild behaviour and so on. Please do not offer your body or involved in any sexual relation.
2006-07-23 09:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooooh, that's tough been there done that. I guess it would depend on how long you have known each other if not very long
if I were you I'd ask him out. Nothing wrong with that. If you've known each other for a good while ie: a year or longer I would say
he's not interested or he would of already asked you out. I should know just went through this myself.
2006-07-23 02:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by ~confused~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him alot & feels that he & u can get along well, be straight forward to him (dun after u lost him then regret). ask him hows he find against u & whether can he be ur bf (some guys r abit shy).. if answer it yes, then u get him, but happen he turns u down, at least u got an answer.... (of cus, before u do that u need to be prepare for the worst answer).
so after u got an answer, u can simply prepare for the next move... gd luck!
2006-07-23 03:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like him, take out your courage and tell him about your feeling towards him. If he also like you, i think he is willing to accept you as his gf. Sometimes it is easier to talk than to do. But if you don't take any action now, u will regret once u have lost him to somebody else. All the best to you
2006-07-23 06:46:27 · answer #5 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop hints like asking him about his ideal lady, does he enjoy hanging out with you, is there someone he fancies etc.
in fact, for a change, why not u initiate it? this era allows women to take charge, and if you feel like i wana rship with him, why not u ask?
lastly, its all in ur gut feelings. u shd know deep inside if he loves u or not.
2006-07-23 02:44:13 · answer #6 · answered by beyond paradise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him with your status with him?? tell him how u feel... u cant force a guy to be your boyfriend
2006-07-23 02:44:15 · answer #7 · answered by shawty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him out for meal or movie.
2006-07-23 02:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by tan g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK
2006-07-23 02:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by enjoylife! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋