2006-07-22 19:25:45 · 25 answers · asked by Chris C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just understand one simple thing that life is not a one man show... You need to give her ample space and trust her else you will face the consiquenses... She might love you but that doesn't mean that you are everything for her... Every person have a different role at different time... And it good for us to learn and accept this fact as soon as possible...
2006-07-22 19:30:29 · answer #1 · answered by DrAgOn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you can't give her what you want in a relationship and she get upset that you can't give her what she wants and if you really love her and you want 2 the relationship 2 last then tell her 2 help you understand what she wants and that you will try your best and you'll give your all 2 make it work and if she is asking for to much that you don't think it is worth it then i guess you should just end things and just be friends i hope every thing goes good
2006-07-23 02:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOBODY can be someone's everything!! Take the pressure off yourself and STOP TRYING! If you keep trying, you will only fail and then feel bad about yourself, when it is not a flaw in YOU, it is just how it is! All you can do is to do your best, and you will find out that in life, sometimes that is not good enough for some people. Just be yourself, not what someone else wants you to be and you will find out that if you be yourself...you will attract people that are worth knowing.
2006-07-23 02:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know what you mean. I had the same problem. I tried to adjust and be all that she wanted, but it just made me depressed and feel like she didn't really want me, but someone else. But that's not true. It's impossible to be all that your girlfriend wants in a relationship because no one like that probably exists. You can only love her and be with her. And don't get yourself about it because that'll really cause problems for both of you.
Best of luck.
2006-07-23 02:30:14 · answer #4 · answered by Some Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cannot be everything in a relationship cos expectations always increases but you can be doing something major in a relationship so that she will feel you are important but not everything in a relationship...
2006-07-23 02:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by rubika r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can or should have to be what another person wants.If you have to work so hard at it then maybe you need to find someone who accepts you as you are .If we continue to exhaust ourselves becoming what another wants eventually we will lose what we are individually.Find another girlfriend !
2006-07-23 02:31:08 · answer #6 · answered by singingsusie25901 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be young. No one can please everybody, it's just not possible. If your girlfriend is unhappy tell her you are willing to work things out, but that if she wants you to change let her know she has to change too. it's a two way street.
2006-07-23 02:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by ~confused~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOBODY can be everything that the other person want in a relashionship or it would just be boring. so just be yourself or she is not the one for you. becuase if she loved you she wil love you for who you are
2006-07-23 02:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by girl19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a fine line between you compromising to her needs, and her wanting you to be someone you're not! for example, it would be reasonable that you respect her wishes and not pick your nose in front of her friends! but then if she wants you to fly her to the moon and back....you see what i mean....
2006-07-23 02:36:27 · answer #9 · answered by lisa s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because this is not a perfect world and women are never satisfied... trust me i know.... no matter what u do u could have done something else.. no matter what u said u could have said somethin else.. no matter what u buy u could have either bought something else or saved that money... blah blah blah... nag nag nag.. thats all we do
2006-07-23 02:29:52 · answer #10 · answered by Cee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋