I am currently seeing this girl that I am crazy about. We have been seeing each other since mid-May or so. I really like this girl that I'm seeing and I don't want to screw it up. My problem is that sometimes I get mixed feelings from her. Sometimes she seems interested in me and we are all kissing and stuff. But like last week, for example, I went to her place and we watched a movie. We didn't touch at all that day! Does this mean she's losing interest or does it mean she's past that "can't keep your hands off of each other" phase?
2006-07-22 19:21:38 · 9 answers · asked by icemanind 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally, I just go through touchy feely phases. Sometimes I like the affection, other times it can really annoy me. It doesn't mean I'm not into them, sometimes I just need a break from touching amorously. Also, it is nice to just be able to sit and talk, like friends. I wouldn't be worried, it's probably just her being in a bad mood. You could always try asking, though!
2006-07-22 19:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Tired S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could mean a number of things, girls are, as they say, complicated. It could be that she's afraid that your relationship with her is based on pleasure such as kissing, touching, etc. So perhaps, she wants to see if you still are crazy about her even if you two don't touch each other or kiss for a whole day. She could want to find out if you like her for her personality or something else. It doesn't necessarily mean that she's losing interest, but it may. You should have a talk with her and find out the truth though. Remember not to jump to any conclusions until you talk to her about it.
2006-07-23 02:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by Verie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be a 'you thing'. Thinking it's you is a huge relationship mistake. The other night my BF was aloof and not his typical happy self. I kept trying to figure out what I did to upset him. The next day he told me that he got into a fight with his best friend and couldn't stop thinking about it. Ask her if everything is alright or depending on your level of closeness ask one of her friends if they can give you some insight into her current situation.
You didn't mention your intimacy (which is understandable) but she may feel like the relationship is moving to fast on a sexual level. Try talking to her about this- bring it up casually and don't make it about her. Say: 'Am I pushing you too fast? am I crowding in on you?' and say it in a way that says you are fine with her limitation and just want to know if she is comfortable.
There is also a chance it's not a sexual, but an emotional thing. She may be scared about getting attached to you too fast and could be thinking about how much it will hurt if you leave her.
Remember, asking for advice from a 3rd party is a good start- but talking to her will clear everything up (even if it takes a while for her to open up and actually answer your questions).
2006-07-23 02:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ussaly this happens to a lot of boring men but you sound like you are not doing anything wrong doing cuase if you do that kissing a lot or at times that move probaly get bored if not bored she didn't want to at that time some girls do this a lot and well she not losing intrest she just did'nt want to at the time if not just ask her and see what happens if shes losing intrest in you
2006-07-23 02:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold her hand,smooth her hair away from her face,kiss her..Sometimes it takes the man to make a move...Don't be nervous.Be yourself..We like that more than anything..It's the small things that count..If she's meant for you,she'll come around..Take care of you..The woman will follow..
2006-07-23 02:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by blueboyswoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not losing interest just interested in the movie.
2006-07-23 02:24:50 · answer #6 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was probably just having one of those days that a girl goes through. It probably wasn't you. She just maybe wasn't in the mood for the loving at the time.
2006-07-23 02:28:12 · answer #7 · answered by happy2bloved2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard ? you need to sit down with her and talk to her maybe she is getting the same vibe from you or its something else talking is the key to a good relationship what can it hurt to talk and find out whats up
2006-07-23 02:27:01 · answer #8 · answered by jislostinspace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously..may have been experiencing that monthly visitor which might keep her from wanting to be physical
2006-07-23 02:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋