the guy i cheated with told his friends i did stuff with him and some how my brother found out! i only cheated because i had a buzz...and i hadnet ****** my recent boifreind cuz we never get a chance to! what do i do?
2006-07-22 19:14:59 · 30 answers · asked by cheater... 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is NOT okay to cheat. I don't know why people think that it is ok to steal someone elses life from them under the guise that you are being faithful! You ALREADY ruined the relationship.
There are people out there that DON'T cheat. Those of you who do - what makes you think that it is ok for you to keep your options open while deceiving the person you are with into keeping their options closed??? If you have an OPEN relationship, then fine, see whoever you like. But if you are telling someone else that you are ONLY with them, then you should be ONLY with them. Those of you who think cheating is ok are just big pu*sys who can't deal with the thought of being alone, yet aren't mature, experienced or wise enough to be with only one person. Stop being such co-dependent pansies and be honest about who you are. If you can't limit yourself to one person, then don't. But don't lie to other people about who you are and what you are capable of. It's pathetic.
P.S. I don't agree with this whole - it's okay to cheat until you get married. If you told someone you would only be with them, whether you made it legal or not doesn't matter - if you then find that you can't just be with them, you should let them know. It's selfish to expect someone to only have sex with you, but then have sex with whomever you please. That shows you have absolutely no respect for that person. And if you have respect for NO ONE then at least be honest with people and tell them that.
2006-07-22 19:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its never a really good reason of why a person cheats, but if you want to tell your boyfriend what happen then you should tell him why you did it. You tell him that you love him, and you don't want to end the relationship but you made a big mistake and hope he'll forgive you for it.
Or beg your brother not to tell anyone, and hope your boyfriend wont find out.
I have never cheated before but I have been cheated on, so I know its a very hard thing to deal with.
2006-07-22 19:22:58 · answer #2 · answered by hunny_bunny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still cheated, just because you had a buzz is not an excuse... I have a buzz almost everyday and I know how to tell right from wrong. You messed up bottom line, tell your boyfriend before someone else does and if your lucky he will forgive you. Most likely you will be dumped though... good luck!
2006-07-22 19:27:23 · answer #3 · answered by drummunky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so right here is going. you want to augment up and get over it what's executed is executed and there is not any longer something you may do to regulate it. You executed screwed up and alcohol and being inebriated is under no circumstances the excuse i think that in case you won't be able to believe your self even as being inebriated or do not understand how you should react even as being inebriated you under no circumstances must have lengthy gone out ingesting contained in the first position. as far as i'm in contact your boyfriend deserved to make certain and pal or no longer in the experience that they don't experience what you probably did is sweet and do not forget that you're refusing to inform him then they'd each and every correct to inform him themselves. tell me something if the shoe were on the different foot and his friends knew that he cheated on you does no longer you wish that they could have a similar type of decency to allow you to recognize understanding that he had no plans in letting you detect out? i do not forget that i ought to.
2016-10-15 02:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by woodie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably to late, you ruined it. Even though you were buzzed you could still have commen sence. I know that's horrible for me to say but it's the cold hard truth. And perhaps your partner will forgive you, but most likely it's all gone now. I'm so sorry to be so negative but this is just the way life is...
~paige
2006-07-22 19:18:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with your boyfriend. You cannot play the victim because you were buzzed, that is a crock of crap. You need to tell him and break up with him. He dosen't need to worry that every time you get a buzz that you are going to cheat on him and blame it on whatever you were on. It is not a free pass, you need to be responcible for your actions.
2006-07-22 19:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you not ruin your relationship with your boyfriend?
Uh.... Oh, wait you already did by cheating on him in the first place, buzzed or not.
2006-07-22 19:17:12 · answer #7 · answered by GlitzNGlam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i would just simply deny the whole thing ever happening ...dont act guilty or anything!!! People cheat and its ok ...as long as your not married!!!! One day when your married you have no choice but to stay faithful!!! Life is way to short to stress so much over little things!!!! **** happens mama!!!! And if he doesnt belive you!! What can you do but move on!!!!! muahh
2006-07-22 19:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by nothing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him soon before he hears it from someone else- it's up to him if he can forgive you or not.
There's no easy way out of it- unless you had some sort of time machine and could not do what you did. You're going to have to live with the consequences.
2006-07-22 19:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by Ashlee S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEART BREAKER:
You already ruined it by cheating. ITS OKAY though because I'm here to tell you that you don't even love him. Why, because you don't cheat on the ones you love no matter how much you drank. So no love no heart ache.
2006-07-22 19:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by baby thug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋