ok so i can never get a bf. is it cuz im a lil chubby? i mean im not fat but im deffinately not skinny. im about 5'5" and 140 lbs. im not that fat but im kinda chunky. y is it that guys only want gurls who are really skinny? all my fiends have had like a million bfs and ive had 2. it really sux. and both of my relationships were gay. uggg plz help.
2006-07-22 19:11:54 · 10 answers · asked by beachbabe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its definately not because your chubby... im chubby too! i weight about the same as you and im shorter... so i should be a big bigger, but i have a bf... and he actually prefers me over skinny women because he like my little chubby-ness...
i think you should just be who you are and not worry about whether you have a bf or not! to guys, that will make you seem more confident and more desirable...
2006-07-22 19:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by baby bear 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you find the right guy, weight won't matter, babe. But since you don't have the body of a model, what you can do is to make sure you always look great. Makeup, great hair, nice clothes (that fit!), and a positive attitude doesn't hurt either. The second you stop looking for him, he'll show up. Don't rush the relationship thing. It will come in time. If you do rush it, you'll get someone horrible, or no one at all. Good luck!
2006-07-22 19:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by Chelsea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loose some weight. Try more exercising.
Reports in news today say obese girls have more health problems later in life. While your not obese, you are possibly overweight.
You can do something about it, if you want to, or you can sit, watch tv, ask questions on yahoo, and eat cheetos and potato chips and gain another 20 pounds.
Its up to you. Take off 10 - 15 pounds and you'll probably look as hot as most of those friends of yours that have had a million bf's
Start today.
2006-07-22 19:17:53 · answer #3 · answered by Yourname Here 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
properly i do no longer comprehend what to assert about the asking out a guy. yet I only favor to inform you that it truly is totally known to have under no circumstances had a bf. i'm 18 and function under no circumstances had a bf, someone accessible is possibly questioning; wow she must be gruesome or demanding or some thing yet i assure you i'm no longer, no longer to sound boastful or some thing. yet only comprehend that it truly is known :)
2016-11-25 19:21:36 · answer #4 · answered by capua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not every guy likes a skinny girl. maybe you're trying to hard. or just leave them alone cuz I've learned guys like it when you dont notice them. they like to do the chasing. lol
2006-07-22 19:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by cutie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you mean BJ? At 140lbs you should be able to knock a young boy down and just sit on his head and wiggle.
2006-07-22 19:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're probably looking for men in all of the wrong places. also, be confident. It doesn't matter your weight. Men love confidence and a beautiful personality
2006-07-22 19:15:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe the guys just don't like your Personility because some guys dont care what u look like it's all about personality, act yourself.
2006-07-22 19:22:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mercedes T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im me on yahoo ill help u out
2006-07-22 19:15:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone ask the same question!!
2006-07-22 19:16:06 · answer #10 · answered by AAP0305 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋