Why do women have to be so difficult?

Question

Women sure cause me a lot of heartache. Are their any decent ones out there anymore. The good ones must be taken. I get all the freaks. I'm thinking my situation is probably somewhat common for guys out there.

Answer 1

As a lesbian I can honestly say this to you...I hear ya and keep trying! Good luck.

Answer 2

guys cause US a lot of heartache because PERFECT PEOPLE ARE NOT OUT THERE. the only way we could be truly happy with somebody without heartache was if they were absolutely perfect. but that's not gonna happen. what we've gotta do is find someone perfect for us. the one that helps us through the heartache, even if they're the ones that caused it.
your situation isn't just common, it's expected. and that's not a bad thing. how can you demand perfection from anyone that's not perfect themselves?
patience, sacrifice, and selfless love are the only way ANY of us will make it together.
p.s. there are DEFINITELY alot of freaks...but not ALL the good ones are taken.

Answer 3

okay...you think women cause you heartache...but have you ever stopped and wondered what you could be doing wrong? do you treat them the way that they should be treated? there is a reason that you are having problems...! and YES, there are some decent women out there. I am one of them. Some of us are taken, but the ones of us who aren't have standards!! if you don't respect yourself and respect us, you're headed down a dead end street!! The only reason that you're situation may be remotely common for guys out there is b/c guys are jackasses!! ya'll don' know or show the true meaning of chivalry!! if you did...you would have women diving at your feet for attention from you...!! respect is a HUGE factor in getting a "good one". think of it like this...(this makes more sense if you have a sister or a mother that you really love!) TREAT EVERY WOMAN LIKE YOU WOULD WANT A MAN TO TREAT YOUR SISTER OR YOUR MOTHER!!

Answer 4

You are probably meeting those who have very little in common with you and different values from your own. Be aware of the places you are going to meet females. Are these places you would expect to find females who have similar interests to your own? If not, go places where you are most comfortable and do not put on "airs" to impress. Be yourself and then, the women you find yourself speaking with will probably, be more in tune with who you are. Best wishes.

Answer 5

Because women are more emotional and seem to forget that men aren't on the same page as we are. I agree, when you find the right woman you'll know she's your soul mate. However, remember even though your soul mates doesn't mean the relationship will work ..... figure that one out!!

Answer 6

u think they r difficult only since u cant understand them.I kno its dificult but they hav completely different sort of thinking as compared to men.u can make it out in this manner=>
As long u run after them,they will run far from u.But when u stop runnin after hem, they get confused n run after u 2 find y r they confused.Sometimes they want u 2 pay respect 2 them and sometims they dont.Yiiiiii

Answer 7

Women are not difficult when they are with the right men. I am a girl but I labor under the same predicament when it comes to men...I guess we haven't found the right ones for us. When it comes, there'll be no more difficulties. Gotta keep the faith;)

Answer 8

Because women have been treated so horribly through centurys, and now they have the freedom and the power, and It is normal for a woman to be a *****, because we can and you just have to love us anyways......

Answer 9

yep, very common indeed. Most are married and the others are practically married.

what can ya do?

thanks for playing and have a nice day.

Answer 10

well i guess alot of guys and girls can be like that. It all depends on time, that special someone will appear, when ur not even lookin. Just be patient it will happen.