i have had lov ebefore but not the love that makes you have butterflies and im ready for that kind of love. im sick of being lonely
2006-07-22 18:44:40 · 17 answers · asked by Lips of an Angel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's good that you feel you are ready, but don't forget to think with your head and not just your heart. Everyone, and I mean EVERYONE has a hard time finding love. This is because it is SO hard to find someone who you have "butterflies" for, who also isn't a di*k, and a lying cheating bastard. It is hard to find someone who is nice and appreciates you, but who you are also extremely attracted to. Look for someone that can be both - it may take longer than finding someone who fulfills just one of those needs, but it is worth it.
2006-07-22 18:49:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably know love can pop up without warning.
Sound like youre having a dry spell ! When youre emotionally open for a relationship, thats a lousy thing to happen.
Hang in there - several guys out there are for you and its a matter of time before the lucky one is the firs to dscover you.
Use this time to polish up on those things about yourself that make you feel special and make time to socialize with friends. There may be a friend of a friend out there in the wings for you!
Hope you lonely days are soon a memory!
2006-07-23 01:59:16 · answer #2 · answered by SASHA123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad Im in the same boat right now and Im just taking it one day at a time and dont get to desperate because then & only then you will screw up, You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else, Dont be in a rush for love, for sometimes it can hurt & at other times it will over whelm you with joy but it is never perfect and if your young, you have alot to learn when it comes to love because its not only a feeling, Its something that takes alot of strength & devotion to make things work & you can go thru alot of heartbreak just trying, So take your time & dont be in a big rush, Love will find you when you least expect it....Good luck
2006-07-23 02:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by dugbug63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you can do is be happy with yourself....and focus on something that you can control to make you happy.
There's nothing you can do to make someone love you....just live your life and it will happen. If you're desperately seeking love...then you'll most likely lower your standards and hook up with anyone that will have you. That's not how you find what you are looking for.
Fill your life with friends and things that interest you...to fill the void and lessen the loneliness....until you meet the right person.
2006-07-23 01:49:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the lonely part you can solve. Get out and do things with your friends. Try to go places you haven't before, and be the best person you can. You will eventually find someone.
2006-07-23 01:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Mantra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to wait.true love will come one day.its just a matter of time.keep on searching for love doesnt help.but always keep a smile and make more friends do(:you will never know that your true love is either on the way or has always been around you.all the best!(:
2006-07-23 01:47:48 · answer #6 · answered by destinyofangels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe love isn't some thing you look for, it finds you. I know that sounds corny but i believe it to be true. Hang in there it will find you....at least thats what i tell myself ;)
2006-07-23 01:50:37 · answer #7 · answered by jims1030 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really wanna love someone try this email address sheran1984@yahoo.com i am also looking for a girl to be my friend or for my lover ok hope you will mail me
2006-07-23 02:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by sheran3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have to to is, enjoy the lonelyness, i mean start loving yourself and others will love you... So stop lookinkg for a girl and start living as what you are...
2006-07-23 01:51:49 · answer #9 · answered by DrAgOn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I stopped looking was when I found my true love! Be happy with yourself and content with being by yourself and love will come to you!!
2006-07-23 01:49:10 · answer #10 · answered by jdeamom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋