about that person?how do u handdle your self before u do something stupid like have sex?
2006-07-22 18:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by J0lLy rANchEr fRum dAT sWeet t0 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i no how u feel.....i love my boyfriend so much but he still wants 2 wait like 5 more years to get married and i will not have sex until i m married so it is hard 2 hold back but i got to.....good luck and just try hard becuz it will all pay off at the end, seriously.
2006-07-22 18:41:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may think you're in love, but love has five languages and it takes many years to speak all five. What you are experiencing is infatuation, which is nice and warm. Don't worry about being infatuated with your guy because it can grow into real love. Don't confuse sex with love, they're two different emotions and is only one of the five languages. Giving yourself up can have great consequences in the future. He wants you to give in even though he knows if you do he'll not respect nor marry you afterward. First and second base is OK, but further will bring you great heartache, so wait. Talk it over with your mother or father.
2006-07-22 18:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in love. Trust me on this one. Once you put out, he will get out, so hold out. Masterbate instead if you need the release.
You need to get your life straight before you think about marriage. It is a lifetime commitment, and when you jump in early you will end up miserable probably, and if you make the mistake of having sex before you are ready...you will end up pregnant and responsible for another life when you have not even started your own, married or not.
Give yourself more credit, wait, learn about life & all it holds, meet all those "fish" in the dating sea....then decide who holds your heart. Relax, the right one will come at the right time, and that is not now....
2006-07-22 18:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by ibelieveintheconstitution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've got to realize that there is a time for everything and if you act out of time, you're heading for trouble.It's like taking a cake out of the oven and trying to eat it before it's ready.How many adults today got married real young and are still together and of those still together how many are safe and secure.
Look back at your life so far, if you wet your pants in first grade. You might have never wanted to go to school again but in time you would laugh about it.
Don't hurry love, it will come as sure as tomorrows Sun
2006-07-22 18:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, darling. You separate yourself from them! Remember you always have control over what you want done to your body. If you don't want to have sex, then you need to not have sex. Sex is voluntary and consensual. And you will have no one to blame if you give in to temptation.
My advice: If you know you're not ready for sex, then do something else to occupy your time. Don't spend so much exclusive time with this person. As a matter of fact don't spend any "alone" time with them. Keep all of your interactions public and social. That way the opportunity to do something you don't want to do will not present itself.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-22 18:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by PseudoQuasiX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having sex is not stupid. :) Doing so before you are ready is.
2006-07-22 18:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by blackwind45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU ARE NOT OF AGE TO GET MARRIED. THEN WHY
ON EARTH ARE THINKING ABOUT HAVE SEX. IF IT IS LOVE
THEN BOTH YOU CAN WAIT UNTIL YOU GET OF AGE OF
CONSENT.
2006-07-22 18:43:27 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? having sex doesnt matter about their age....well if you are under 15 and doin over 18 then yeah ...i guess it does..
2006-07-22 18:38:44 · answer #8 · answered by cheater... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can be xpress in all sort of thing¬ just simply by gettin laid!
2006-07-22 19:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋