ok there is a guy name bryan and i've been knowing him since i was a baby. he is a family friend and i've been liking him since 4ever but the only bad thing is that he is 4 years older then me and we always talk and everytime i see him i can't stop looking at him. wat should i do?
2006-07-22 18:32:19 · 8 answers · asked by melissa ortiz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 14 and he is 18
2006-07-22 18:55:41 · update #1
dont be with him jus wait tillu get 16 r so bc if u really like him u wont let him go to jail bc in most state for a 18 to be with more then 2 yrs younger could r would go to jail and it depends on ur parents too i no it anit ez talkin to em but ask ur mom mainly wat she thinks bout ur friend datin a guy older then her it all ways helps to used someone else and make up the friend that way u get the answer u need and ur mom wont no it it was
2006-07-23 13:09:00 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_cowgirl8321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you 18 yet? Is he well if thats the deal for both your sake cause he is a family friend wait and see hat happens. But 4 years isn't to bad of a age gap unless your 14 and he is 18. If its ment to be you will both hook up later down the line.
2006-07-22 18:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends how old are u? if ur 16 and he's 20. dats a no. if ur 21 and he's 25 then that's okay. there's such a thing called growth and maturity k? if ur in the rite age bracket, ur a mature woman u can make grown up decisions and ask him out urself. but be prepared to put the friendship on the line. ask urself, can u cope w/ the dangers of tampering w/ a friendship?
2006-07-22 18:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by JustiN CrediblE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well by all means don't dare try to make a move on the guy.
4 years is 4 years. You're gonna be that age someday too. Might as well have fun while you're still young and not gray with brittle bones.
2006-07-22 18:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm your ages wold have been nice here? You are 10 he is 14? You are 12 he is 16? Or is it the other end of the scale? You are 82 he is 86? C'mon!
2006-07-22 18:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you at least 18 before going anywhere near him! If he will date you now, then he is not the nice guy you think he is.
Been there, done that!
2006-07-22 18:37:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kerry E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are at a decent age, I think you should tell him how you feel. If it doesn't work, hey, at least you were brave enough to go up to him. He will remeber you for your boldness. Give it a try, girl. Don't be bashfull. Wish you the best. You go, girl!
2006-07-22 19:08:28 · answer #7 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. Girls mature at an earlier age anyway. You 2 could just right for each other.
2006-07-22 18:36:15 · answer #8 · answered by Goblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋