For all you ladies out there, why do women fake orgasms?

Question

Isit true that women will fake a orgasm with a guy, and why do you do it.

Answer 1

I don't fake them.

Answer 2

All women can fake an orgasm. Some women can't reach an orgasm naturally without the use of a vibrater. This is because some women just need more clitoral stimulation that would take way too long naturally, and most men just won't wait that long before ejaculation. Ergo the need to fake. If we told you men that we didn't reach an orgasm, you would feel bad about your own sexuality, so we just don't tell you.
If I were you, I would just be satisfied that she wants to be close to me, spending time with me period. But one thing that I love for my man to do is to ask me what I want him to do to pleasure me. That makes all the difference in the world, because it means he's not just performing the act for his own pleasure, but for mine as well.

Answer 3

Sometimes it takes so long...which could be nice even tho you don't have an orgasm. It can get kind of tiring and you know the dude is about to get tired of it, too...so you just push a fake one out and then he can finish. I personally do not ever fake. If I notice that one isn't coming I say it feels good but I am not going to have an orgasm. My husband knows that it doesn't have anything to do with his performance it has more to do with me getting mentally into it. If someone is faking its not cool. I wouldn't feel bad about it.

Answer 4

Men think that they are tailoring there sex to the woman they are doing, then they get lost in what they are doing and forget that sex is two people not one person and do some off the wall SH#t that takes longer then an overseas phone call or flight, and by the time the girl ready for him to stop so she fakes it, and she does it good so the guy thinks he just made her hit four home runs, two jump shots, and three touch downs, and his job is down and go's to sleep, Better turn over and keep one eye open to see what really go's down when your sleep guy, you might just be a little hurt by your so called hard work and good love.

Answer 5

I only have once. So that's less than one in.....I don't even know how many times I've had sex in my life. I think a lot of girls do it because there is a lot, A LOT of pressure to be this sex crazed porn star when you are with a guy. If you don't act all crazy and like you are loving it, the guy will make you feel like YOU aren't good in bed, like something is wrong with you. The reality of it is that every girl is different - what worked for your ex girlfriend might not work for the next girl you are with. You have to take some time to figure things out, and to take the pressure off the girl.

Answer 6

You know reading the responses from you ladies I find it ironic that most of you will say you value honesty in a relationship yet you can't be honest with your partner.....if a guy sucks he sucks, so tell him......how can you expect the sex to change and/or possibly get better if he thinks you're satisfied w/his performance? At the end of the day you're actually doing yourself a disservice. Communication is key in any relationship and if you can't communicate about sex then chances are there are other areas in your relationship where communication is also a problem.......and that's keepin' it real! Get it??? :)

Answer 7

sometimes we do it to boost your self esteem. if you aren't good in bed, and we're ready to get it over with, we'll fake an orgasm. sometimes it has nothing to do with you. some women just can't have orgasms, or they haven't figured out what makes them climax yet, and fake an orgasm to make you show you how appreciative she is of your performance. BUT most often...it's the first one!!

Answer 8

Guys pride themselves on stamina, but women get kinda dry when we're tired, and sex gets painful. Faking orgasm is a polite way to say enough.

Answer 9

Well, I can tell you that in my experience, I did it to be nice. The guy was really nice, just not that great in bed so to get it over with I faked it. I suppose people on here are gonna tell me it was wrong of me to do but like I said, the guy was nice and I felt bad for his inexperience so rather than be a bi--- I decided to do what I thought was the polite thing and fake it. I'm not proud of it, but it's done and over with

Answer 10

I think it is because women sometimes enjoy the act of sex more than actually climaxing. Women KNOW if they are actually going to be able to orgasm or not probably about half-way through.

Frankly, its a blow to a guys ego (no pun intended) when he can not make his woman climax. We don't want to hurt your feelings.

Answer 11

beacuse, sometimes playing golf isnt all about the ball in the hole, its the prepration before hand like how the green is taken care of how the golfers clubs are cleaned and polished and how he lines it up and takes his time for his swing. most guy for get these parts a woman has to like her partner emotionally and phycsically to have a great orgasm, and most womans g spots arnt inside their vigina, so most woman get bored and fake it for it to be over.