is it to much when you write poems, talk sweet to ur guy call him to see how he is...call him everyday..but you do this because you love this person...if guys ur girlfriend did this for you would it be annoting?
2006-07-22 18:20:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally for me. it wont be annoying. cuz i'd be happy to know that im on ur mind, but there's always a limit to things are good and bad. just dont get too mushy or sound too desperate to see him. just let him know u love him and u care. its good to feel ur appreciated for once, so yes keep doin it for him. he may never tell u, but deep down he'll appreciate it.
2006-07-22 18:24:00 · answer #1 · answered by JustiN CrediblE 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It is too much. It would bug the piss out of me. Don't base your existence on me or any other guy, have your own identity. You're probably a very nice person and it is nice to 1. have someone that cares. 2. have someone willing to share themself with you. Any guy that has to talk to you every day is either insecure, a liar, a horndog, or a loser. I respect a woman enough to expect her to have a life unto herself, if we get to share time together great, if not we'll have a lot talk about when we do get together.
2006-07-23 01:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everything sounds perfect to me. except for the calling everyday. sometimes that can be annoying. you could try asking the guy if he minds or find a time of day when you know that the guy couldn't possibly be bothered by it. but the poems thing is really nice.
2006-07-23 01:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were him, i would drown from love overdose, but enjoy the high. It may not be the right amount of doses of love, but you know, love is something we dont have enough of, remember that song, anyway, i wouldnt find it annoying, i would love you so much more. I hope he feels the same way. Sorry for the lame comparison with love and medicine, but it sounded right. Good luck, and I hope this can only strengthen your relationship.
2006-07-23 01:26:34 · answer #4 · answered by See ya later aligator 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
daily call is good, poems are good.talking sweet is good. the only thing that may be bad is frequency, the dude might feel like u r 'checking up ' on him, or if he's doing something, it's kinda hard to turn a wrench, or hammer, or study wit a phone to u ear.
2006-07-23 01:29:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt any guy cares about poems, ant straight guy that is. Calling is great but if your bombarding him with calls....yeah thats annoying. Most guys really dont want to "chit chat" for hours on end, even with a girl they love.
2006-07-23 01:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by cognitively_dislocated 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am enough of a romantic I think to say that I like a little mystery in a woman. If you are constantly available, and show signs of being fixational by giving him too much attention, if doesn't leave much room for his imagination to work.
2006-07-23 01:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by anonymourati 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would love for you to express your self you can call as long as we're not on the phone just breathing or not saying something that don't mean much other Wise show your love
2006-07-23 01:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by runninglate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "everyday" detail can be annoying.
Men need sleep. Rest.
Also, we want some time to do something worthy of talking about, like going somewhere, or solving a problem
Talking everyday is like:
"Hey"
"Hey"
"So... What's up?"
"...Nothin'...what's up wit you?"
"Nothin'"
"Baby?"
"Hmm?"
"I love you"
"Love you, too, babe"
"Good night"
"'Night"
(plus the whole "you hang up first" gig.)
Men are like a flower: we need space, sunshine, and to be left the he!! alone for a little bit.
And YES, we still love our girls.
2006-07-23 01:28:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's annoying for you to talk the talk and not walk that walk. So call me hit me up with a rhyme or anything at all. No I'm not desperate I answer questions so bring me yo problem and I'll get to solving. Reintroduce the booty new thang.
2006-07-23 01:26:13 · answer #10 · answered by Thin King 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋