2006-07-22 18:15:38 · 8 answers · asked by babysoftskin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before me, should i tell him we should be friends not bf and gf? what would you do?
2006-07-22 18:16:51 · update #1
good question. first off, there's 2 things that is a foundation of a good relationship. 1 is trust, 2nd is communication. so if he tells u they are just friends, can u trust him enough to believe him? 2nd, if u can communicate to him that u dont like bein put 2nd all the time, would he take the time to help u figure a way to solve this problem u 2 have? for me personally. i always helped out my female friends, and my gf at that time knew i was always willin to help out. its how i am in nature, i wonder if he's like me, then u wouldnt have much to worry about. u'd be very lucky to find a guy who helps out his friends, shows maturity and class. but ur rite, he should put u 1st a little more.
2006-07-22 18:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by JustiN CrediblE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont Break Up With Him Because Of That He Is Helping Out His Friends And He Probally Has A Big Heart And Dont Jump To Concultions Ask Him About It I Have Alot Of Close Girlfriends Too And They Have Stuck By Me And Helped Me Through Alot Of Stuff. He May Be Doing The Same Thing Because To Some People Friends Come Before Girlfriends. I Know Thats The Way It Is For Me.U Need To Have Some Faith In Your Bf. I Have Been In This Situation Alot And Handled It Many If U Wanna Talk More Im Me Or Email Me at aquasoul2005@yahoo.com
2006-07-22 18:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by ColoradoGuy21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to introduce you to this female. If he gained't do it or behaves as if he's uncomfortable interior the presence of both honestly one of you at the same time, you'll comprehend that this female is a real probability for your courting. If she is fairly only a pal, she will develop into your pal too. however, in case you may not befriend this female, and your boyfriend nonetheless insists on chatting with her in detail, tell him you're leaving him because you aren't from now on going to take a 2d seat in the back of yet another female in his existence. Then discover some different person who knows that he can not "have his cake and eat it too".
2016-11-25 19:19:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? Actually it doesn't matter, is it his job? No? Well, then I think you better get a "Job" on the side too..or best yet, get a new "carreer" entirely. If you think something is wrong, best guess it is. Good Luck.
2006-07-22 18:22:44 · answer #4 · answered by Golden 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely their friends with "benefits". If you don't mind sharing "ya man",stay with him. Otherwise move on to someone thats gonna treat you right.
2006-07-22 18:25:11 · answer #5 · answered by ava-pimp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD LET HIM KNOW HOW THIS MAKE YOU FEEL WHEN
HE DOES THIS. BUT UNLESS HE GIVING YOU A REASON
TO EXPECT THAT SOMETHING IS GOING ON. JUST TALK
TO HIM. AND GO FROM THERE.
2006-07-22 18:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is the "Claims" coming from....don't be so insecure!!
2006-07-22 18:17:41 · answer #7 · answered by trc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is flattered by their attention.
I think he's weak emotionally.
2006-07-22 18:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋