whats a good way to approach a girl . . .thats the hardest part, i can work up the balls to say hi, but then i dont know what else to talk about and i end up loosing because its like . .hi . . .umm . . . .than i draw blanks, or il talk for a minute, try to get her sparked into a conversation and it usually doesnt work
-advice, any, help!
2006-07-22 18:12:36 · 4 answers · asked by woundshurtless 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just treat her with respect, and have a good sense of humor! Say something funny, like you had a pickup line all planned out to say to her, but you just heard the guy over there say it to that girl over there, and it didn't work, or something. Just use your imagination, but don't be too cheesy or come on too strong! Just be yourself, and she'll love you. Be sincere!
2006-07-22 18:21:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying Hi is like basically leading yourself into a dead end. Smile....sincerely. Find something you two have in common....ask her the time...ask her opionon on a subject (it can be something you randomly make up, just not too out of the blue)...and if nothing else, compliment her! Come off friendly, not nervous. Girls generally like to talk about themselves, but don't bombard her with questions about her personal life. Maybe say something like .... "I'm looking for a gift for my cousin, I was wondering....what do you think ? Should I get her this CD or that one?" then you can find out what kind of music she likes and go from there.
Hope all goes well!
2006-07-23 01:20:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ohthtmacey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are picking the wrong gals to talk to. The ones you are talking to are not intrested in you or they would say hi back with a big smile and you would say something and and they would not let it fall and would say something back. It takes two to talk and meet each other.
Hi has always worked for me. It don't take something super cool. If you have to come up with something cool like my $100,000 car is setting out side waiting to take us to my Jet for a dinner date in Paris. Well forget her. Not worth your time.
Most women are looking for Mr. Rich and guys like you and me are just in their way.
We call them gold diggers. Learn to spot them and just don't even bother.
You have to find the one you can talk to. That will be the one who talks back when you say hi. Not give you that look and turn their head sidways trying to make you feel out of place. Those are called bitches.
2006-07-23 01:20:16 · answer #3 · answered by Don K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the girl...but always exude confidence
2006-07-23 01:26:08 · answer #4 · answered by jb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋