do guys like girls who have a good personality or good looks?
2006-07-22 18:08:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what I look for in a girl is:
self confidence and grace
kindness, caring, love,
honesty, openness, trust
empathy, sympathy, willingness to listen and tell,
a sense of self worth and of inner beauty,
something that shines from within them.
I don't care much about race.
I've been raised in a way that I can't.
nobody in my family is of the same race.
I don't care about religion...
it is a nice thing to have in common,
but it isn't everything
love is more important.
I don't care about height or weight or the color of their hair
such things go only skin deep, and what lies under their skin, is far more important.
I don't care about wealth,
though wealth dictates who I will meet
and where I will go,
that is the only sense through which it effects my judgment
I don't care about age.
age is a number.
maturity is what counts.
sexuality is undeniably important in the sustain of a long term adult relationship, however it should not be the main reason a relationship forms or breaks.
such things can change.
other things cannot.
in other words, I care about character
but not about props.
I care about the heart
but not the skin
the only other thing I want, is
her to love me back.
2006-07-22 18:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by The greatest and the best. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on the guy. Some like one or the other. I personally can not stand a girl who looks good but is dumb as a door knob.
2006-07-23 01:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by CanadaRox1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, guys and girls in these days care about looks but it should be for personality.
2006-07-23 01:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by sornelas26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some of each.
So an average girl who is nice to be around is better than a really hot girl who is a complete b*tch.
On the other hand, a really dumpy looking girl can't just talk her way into getting a boyfriend.
2006-07-23 01:17:01 · answer #4 · answered by glenbrent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me personally, i like a girl with a good personality, someone i can have fun with, and confide in. all the barbie wannabe's tend to be fake and petty. which is something i can not stand, maybe some guys will put up with it, but not this dude, if a chick is too hung up on her own looks, then its time to hit the road.
2006-07-23 01:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♫jmann♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Attractiveness catches the eye but personality ultimately wins the heart. A great personality in itself makes a woman beautiful. A bad personality in an attractive woman makes her ugly.
2006-07-23 01:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys care more for sex than they could care for a relatioship but some guys like girls for their good looks but very rarely have i found a guy that liked a girl just for her personality.
2006-07-23 01:14:09 · answer #7 · answered by christina j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If given a choice, the one with personality would be great. I like women with whom you could have a meaningful, sensible talk over dinner and not about what your friend's sister's brother's girlfriend's boy slut does, or what Brad Pitt should do to keep looking the same. She has to be intelligent. Ideally, the combination of beauty and brains would be GREAT!
2006-07-23 04:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on what types of guys that you go with cuase am a guy to and there's a lot of boys that only care of good looks cuase girls have a bigg butt or breast that's some guys care about and you know what i mean so thats what most guys care about
2006-07-23 01:13:58 · answer #9 · answered by LUIS ROSA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pre-25 looks
Post-25 personality and looks
2006-07-23 01:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Nick Name 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋